Abefroman
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Ala.medusa :
If i am disappointing someone, i hope they cut me off.
2026-06-29 14:52:58
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Noma :
I don’t wanna lie…I can’t have fun with someone I realise is consistently disappointing me. There’s no amount of detachment that can make that feel normal to me.
2026-06-30 11:38:22
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J.aliz :
But when you start detaching aka giving them the same energy back it’s a problem
2026-07-02 08:34:00
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ur.top :
ultimately it really just boils down to categorizing people in they're respective areas in your life tbh
2026-06-28 22:53:39
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Erica Tapia :
The true message of this post went over a lot of people’s heads.
2026-06-29 21:28:09
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alex :
I tried doing this, then it built resentment and now I cut her off
2026-06-29 21:00:36
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GenNJuice420 :
People treat you how they feel about you.
2026-06-29 23:16:58
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Hanna Bee :
I tell my kids, once you see something from someone you have three options: promote, demote or terminate. It works great because you give them the same energy without causing any drama. Slow adjustments
2026-06-29 12:24:40
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lanishakeisha :
But it’s also crazy to me to just keep ppl around that are such surface level connections, like yeah my feelings are not hurt but also I’m just having you around, idk
2026-06-29 14:04:16
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Kayla :
Comments are…..not getting it lol
2026-06-30 17:25:00
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Zukini :
Hell nah, respect yourself and cut off people who don’t respect you
2026-06-30 00:01:44
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sigh :
Nope... I'm cutting them off. I don't need to understand anything.
2026-06-30 17:57:07
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alot of thoughts :
uhhh no that builds resentment
2026-06-29 19:33:22
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N8🔻 :
This is one of those rare takes that I think both sides are valid. I understand the detachment and acceptance approach but I also understand not wanting to bother doing that at all and cutting that person out. Just comes down to individual preference at the end of the day
2026-07-01 02:51:56
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Kathy Is Losing It :
100000%
2026-06-30 16:50:56
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Jay | fitness + wellness 🌱 :
Thisssss
2026-06-30 16:16:21
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Amelia :
actually, it is best you have no expectations
2026-06-30 20:51:32
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dre :
My fiancé is the kinggggg of accepting ppl as they are and whatever they give and does not sweat ppl going in/out of his life😭 he's my inspo lol
2026-07-01 14:07:36
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amycatalanofigliano :
My biggest problem is I think people should act the way I act. I keep setting myself up for huge disappointments
2026-07-01 10:52:33
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🎀Mia🎀 :
if you're not a 100% friend from the JUMP, then I'm okay with however much you can give me. but if you're an 80%-100% friend from the jump, and then suddenly with no explanation become a 20% friend, I have issues with that. its taken me A LOOOONG TIME to not let this bother me anymore, regardless how disrespected I feel by it.
2026-06-29 22:52:29
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Jess Palmatary :
Personally I cannot have surface level friendships. For me, I see no point. I’d just rather not be friends if its going to be surface level
2026-06-30 00:26:16
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U$ER92050 :
i call it “respecting people’s boundaries”
2026-06-30 13:23:40
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ZO :
when u love with every fiber in your body this is so hard to do tho
2026-06-30 06:20:01
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mryssma :
I stopped pouring into people more and then they got mad at me and ended the friendship (because I got distant when I was just mirroring)
2026-06-30 03:15:09
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