@notyouraverageminister: Your partner isn’t responsible for regulating your emotions. Your feelings are valid, but they’re your responsibility to process and communicate in a healthy way. Stop projecting your pain and start taking ownership of it. Emotional maturity isn’t having fewer emotions, it’s learning how to manage them before bringing them into your relationship. Healing starts with accountability. #Relationship #Growth #Healthy #Change #Accountability

Lena :

a lot of us need to understand ourselves enough to be able to articulate this type of communication and it is 100% possible when 2 people love eachother enough to do this kind of work. been watching you both from when you were dating. thank you for sharing with us and being an inspiration

Alan-Michael Traylor :

It’s you and her vs the problem not both of you against each other. 💯💯💯

The Gift Of Healing :

I agree!! You're only suppose to hold space for the other person not take on their trauma.

hollywoodtunez :

Understanding yourself and accountability yeah this how it should be ! Love this

👩🏽‍🦱 :

I’m not even emotional about it, it’s just about a principle

breebear89 :

I say we need to take a beat. go walk. go breathe.

RÈMY :

this is exactly what I need to hear I am honored this on my fyp

LiXen :

me and my other half have been taking large strides recently with this. although we do still argue from time to time we still eventually come back to the conversation whether it be an hour or a whole day to allow us to fully understand how we are actually feeling and what we need.

Ayooo_Boogie :

I love this!!!! Blessings

GinadaGemini :

Yes bc our feeling r valid howeva they r not facts at times so taking time is amazing an ppl really should try this vs jst responding from an emotional place. Ive always been taught it’s not safe jst being in ur feeling an I believe that!!!! Facts over Feelings

Jenni Lee🇵🇷 :

I absolutely agree with this

MrWatson77 :

user7837553893532 :

Maturity

travismcphail7 :

I needed to hear this 🙌🏾

Christopher Godfr927 :

💯💯💯💯💯

Grisella Pizarro :

Thank you 🙏🏽

Brie :

I’m glad we heard from your wife too because what she said spoke directly to me as I too am someone who can go one for awhile and my man is 15-20 minutes top and he’s done. Thank you both for sharing.

Jasmine :

I love that my man sent me this 🥰 he so healthy

randelclemons :

Such a good word!! 💯💯💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

December :

wow I'm like this and I'm a woman because I don't like going back in fourth 30 min tops after that me and my husband will discuss it the next day I need to recharge lol

precisetintingmi :

Intense fellowship 🤣🤣🤣🤣

villainthelord :

Talkkkkkk 💯💪🏾🧏🏾

*Humble* :

Speak on it King & Queen. A good listener is a good follwer 💯🥰