@jackiekeyacoach: DARVO. Deny. Attack. Reverse Victim and Offender. It’s a form of manipulation that turns accountability into self-defense. The issue gets buried. The focus gets redirected. And the person who was hurt somehow ends up carrying the blame.” If every difficult conversation ends with you becoming the problem, don’t just listen to the words. Watch the pattern. Some people don’t avoid accountability by denying it. They avoid it by making you the problem.