@helena.earlss: when your mom was always the victim. #covertnarcissist #motherwound #codependencyrecovery

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canvea
canvea :
I'm so sad that I've never learned who I really am.
2026-06-29 21:31:58
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hellodarkness1983
hellodarkness1983🧿 :
Yeah she lost her ish when i moved 2500 miles away. The first time i felt like i could breathe. Then all the ways we were enmeshed was finally clear.
2026-06-29 23:54:15
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jesslopez385
Jess Lopez :
If this isn’t true, I don’t know what is😅😅😅😪😪😪😪😪😪
2026-07-02 02:50:36
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abbypebbles
abbypebbles :
and then I became a therapist 🫩
2026-06-30 02:05:55
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billiebillieb
BillieBillieB :
any time i was happy my mom asked me if I was drunk.
2026-06-30 17:26:21
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brandibcrazy
Brandi Chafins :
This made me feel so seen, I actually feel nauseated lol
2026-06-29 20:36:47
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kcmowriter
KCMOwriter :
This is probably the best description of my relationship with my mom I’ve heard to date.
2026-06-30 14:26:40
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lissy041
lissy041 :
My mom‘s latest thing is texting me at like 9 o’clock at night once a week to accuse me of being mad at her because I haven’t reached out. But she doesn’t reach out to me either to say things like I miss you. Let’s spend time together or anything. I’m so tired of playing these games.
2026-06-30 14:59:49
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dale.sutherland
Daleloveshealing :
We were trained to be the moon to someone else’s planet. But we are so powerful when we learn to be the planet 🌎
2026-06-29 22:35:12
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fifii_wild0ne
FIFii :
I’m in therapy and I’ve stopped dating only to realize my friends were also emotionally draining as well
2026-06-30 13:11:54
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nonononono1351
nonononono :
I have to scroll midway because this truth stings
2026-07-02 03:05:44
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softly.pony
Pizza Enjoyer :
This is exactly my experience. There was literally no room to be a child because I was carrying the burden of my mom’s pain. I’m 38 now and went no contact a year ago and it’s been the most developmental year of my life!
2026-06-30 11:53:43
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user817127602333
Chele-Bele :
my mom is like this. I didn't start living for myself or doing things I liked til I was in my 30s. missed out on so much of life because of the way my family was.
2026-06-30 14:37:15
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katnboots138
KatNBoots138 :
the movie "Mermaids"
2026-06-30 02:29:17
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mrsmiley691
smartzluk7i :
We all had mommy issues
2026-07-01 16:14:22
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kaylalalaaaaa_
Kayla 💕 :
OOOOOFFFFF 😩😩😩😩
2026-07-02 03:15:43
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ernestoherfter
Ernesto Herfter :
I'm happy, that you were able to figure it out, some people go thru that and they never know 😭
2026-07-02 02:39:45
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sparkling.untamed.wisdom
sparkling.untamed.wisdom :
Oh my God I just realized when I was in eighth grade I would spend my allowance money on roses for her every week. Because she would just shut herself in her bedroom and cry, and I wanted to make it better.
2026-06-30 20:29:24
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rebelsway
Miss Lizzy Rebel :
My whole family is like this.....Im afraid to share my joy and good things I get in life because they all seem less than happy for me when I do..... like they are mad I have a good life.... I think 6 months could go by and I wouldnt hear from anyone in my family other than my Mom... and usually she will ask me 1 question about my life before going off about her life and the rest of the the people in my families lives.... hearing your posts really helps me
2026-06-30 12:37:57
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jena2022
jena2022 :
The first time my now-husband ever said “you are not responsible for my emotions and you do not have to manage them for me,” I was stunned. And then I went to therapy.
2026-06-30 12:27:06
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thistledown46
Katherine 🐞🍃 :
My mum died five years ago and I still spend all my time thinking about other people, where are they, what are they doing, how are they feeling, are they going to be OK in the future. I never think about my own future long enough to actually build a life for myself.
2026-06-30 07:37:21
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gillianconstance
Gill. :
well shit...
2026-06-30 13:03:17
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goliguy_
Goli Guy :
I got Ashwagandha
2026-06-30 19:41:25
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tidep0dpizza
tidep0dpizza :
not me a nurse lmfao
2026-07-01 03:46:02
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