@zades.family.life: So now it’s in @Nori. One shared calendar, every therapy, every pickup. He checks the app instead of checking with me. I’m done being the human Google for this family. 🙋‍♀️ who else has answered the same question 47 times this week? #MentalLoad #FamilyCalendar #ParentingTok #DefaultParent #FamilyOrganization

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papachop236
Bryant Metcalf :
I have 3 appointments tomorrow. My wife gave me the times, with what they were for, the doctors names, and which of her and the kids were going. Then corrected herself about two of the times...she got the half hour swapped on two of them. I Walked off doing the math of what time I drop kids off at school, what time I get home, how long it takes to get to first appointment and how much time between the last appointment and the drive time back to school to pick up the other kids. That's a lot of info whizzing around my head while I'm mixing baby formula for the day and running back and forth between flipping eggs, looking for shoes, and trying to wake a toddler. I'm coordinating all of that, instead of my wife...and it's irritating for her to have to clarify the times for me because she is in the middle of dressing herself...and that's all she is doing? Idk about anybody else, but I can be doing or I can be thinking. If I'm doing, then all my thinking is tied up in what I'm doing. When I'm thinking, I am only thinking and not doing. When you throw your thoughts at me while I'm already doing something...information is getting lost. Forgetting isn't always not caring.
2026-08-18 14:37:31
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truecrimes.fi
truecrimes.fi :
Or he has 1000000 other things in his mind and it don’t lock in. It happens
2026-08-18 15:55:31
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johnathonallen89
Johnathon Allen891 :
welcome too Tiktok, where we all know everything, everyone is right while everyone is wrong, and home to the blast your spouse for views. its a lovely place.
2026-08-17 17:09:20
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stevejrealtor
Steve Johnson :
Or… he was doing 6 other things trying to do his part and the memory didn’t get processed correctly so he asked again because it was important to him. But you’ll always find a problem if you look hard enough.
2026-07-01 18:11:51
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canderson316
CAnderson316 :
what can I complain about today
2026-07-01 12:35:02
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vampiricanemone
Vampiric Anemone :
Interesting that you specify your husband but say your daughter, not our daughter.
2026-07-03 09:47:19
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tank316_
tank316_ :
Right but if you outsource the bills, insurance, and primary financial responsibility onto him, it sounds like there’s a partnership there after all
2026-07-01 17:44:09
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rus1858
rus1858 :
Or maybe he has a lot on his mind.
2026-06-30 17:45:49
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djlyon0
DJ Lyon :
Thank God I married my wife. I can't remember sh*t. I 100% have her memory on speed dial and she's never complained in 25 years. She accept that that is one of her strengths and my weaknesses. Relationships are all about covering each other.
2026-06-30 01:44:32
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heavensanger
HeavensAnger :
But it's ok for you to outsource the income earning to him, right?
2026-07-03 12:16:51
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vashthestampede75
Vash :
I have to ask multiple times about things I worry about missing the appointment time for. Maybe he believes this is important and doesn't want to mess it up.
2026-06-30 14:53:27
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erf101010
erf101010 :
Or….. maybe his mind is full of the other 10000 things you’ve told him to do or not do a certain way or you get upset
2026-07-01 19:12:47
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septmis
Septmis :
lol and my loving supportive wife reminds me of everything. I'm dora from finding nemo. glad I got a great wife and kids.
2026-07-02 18:40:58
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graylynnpassineau
Graylynn Passineau :
He was probably worrying about how much money he had to make to pay all the bills
2026-07-02 01:17:54
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brok3dad
Broke dad :
“My daughter”…says enough about whats going on
2026-07-03 17:15:13
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electrag2019
ElectraG :
Or maybe he is balancing a lot in his head and he wants to make sure he shows up for his daughters therapy so he is confirming the time
2026-07-01 20:30:44
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saljuniper
Sal Cunningham :
I once yelled at him over bandaids. "where are the bandaids?" he hadn't even set foot in the bathroom yet to look up at the shelf where they've always been kept. he just asked me. "I just thought you would know faster than my looking." and why, exactly, is your time so much more important than mine, that you get to waste mine asking where things are that you should know or can use your own damn eyes to find? he was pissed, but I think that one got through to him.
2026-07-02 10:59:29
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drivewaythought
Drivewaythoughts :
Sorry for my TBI. Didn’t mean to be such a burden.
2026-07-01 20:26:34
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rick.and.shorty
rickandshorty :
Yall are missing the point. Sometimes? Yeah no problem. When he does it for most matters though? Why can I remember 90% of household tasks and you can’t?
2026-07-02 17:42:00
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delaneymarijke
Marijke :
girl, I am so sorry you apparently ended up on the wrong side of tiktok based on these comments. one thing me and my partner did was sync calendars on our phones so maybe that will help? and if he keeps asking tell him to check the calendar
2026-07-04 01:11:14
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dennisbeutler
DB :
kinda like when you ask him "When are you going to take out the trash" 5 times in 15 minutes.
2026-06-30 04:34:37
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kilomike45
KiloMike45 :
He deserves better
2026-07-01 08:31:14
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bh4735
bh4735 :
I wonder how many different things he worries about and has to deal with that you don't even know about....
2026-07-03 17:16:15
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jpracing715
JPRacing715 :
Do y’all ever get tired of having an existential crisis on a regular bases?
2026-07-02 05:48:44
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johnfisher742
John Fisher :
Everyone is so up in arms over this they didn’t even realize it’s and advertisement for a family calendar 😅
2026-07-02 13:34:49
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