Forgiveness is for mistakes that people work on, change and apologise for. It is not for choices which are cruel and never change. It’s that simple!
2026-06-29 17:28:15
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Jenn :
100% agree. My mother is the way she is because of her upbringing, I understand that. She carried that down to me, and I don't understand that. Going into therapy showed me something can be done about it and she still hasn't done anything.
2026-06-29 17:03:41
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Briar🖤 :
This person is so fucking dumb
2026-06-29 20:14:12
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Andie j (2) :
Some things are unforgivable.
2026-06-29 18:49:08
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LilMizzLizz114 :
I've forgiven mine but that doesn't mean I'm giving her the opportunity to do it again.
2026-06-29 18:34:08
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melody plath :
My sister in law always says “but she was hit as a child she had a hard life” I started saying well she hit and abused me would it be okay for me to start beating my child then? She shut up quickly.
2026-06-29 22:08:30
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Jessie Leigh 🖤✨ :
your spitting facts girly can I please repost
2026-06-30 12:57:13
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brid849 :
Given you seem sure she won’t change, would it be possible to keep in contact taking it slowly, and just accepting each other.
2026-06-29 19:36:26
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✨Marnie✨ :
Was it easy to cut off contact? I haven't talked to my mother for 3 months and she hasn't said anything or even tried.. it just feels awful.
2026-06-30 17:34:09
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danielleamx :
I wish I could hold my mam accountable for her actions & put myself first.. I just feel so guilty cos she had it rough, was a single parent etc & I make excuses for her 😔
2026-06-30 21:27:09
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gracie-lou :
as a woman I can understand my mother but as a daughter I could never forgive her
2026-06-29 17:07:35
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Lou 🫶 :
you look absolutely gorgeous 😍
2026-06-30 08:38:51
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Paula Raven :
my mother was horrible to me and stopped speaking to me for many years. I didn't go to her funeral that was my choice and I don't regret that. However the choice I made was to be the best mum and person I could be. I am the woman I am today is because of the choices I made because of her . xxx
2026-06-29 19:49:22
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Cesca :
Only ever forgive those who deserve forgiveness.
2026-06-29 17:12:41
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Kk_marie :
Side note - your eyebrows are gloooorious.
2026-07-02 09:59:51
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penny 🐧 :
I feel moving on with your life is different to forgiving someone right? You can learn from your past and enjoy your present 💜
2026-06-29 16:58:49
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💚Kaya💙 :
I understand why my mum is like she is but its the fact she didnt even try.
she didnt try to change for herself or us
" she was doing her best with what she had"
yeah well it wasnt enough
2026-06-29 16:59:49
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Ari💫 :
forgiveness is only for people who acknowledge what they did and the consequences, who asked for forgiveness and are actively working on themselves to be better. no one else
2026-06-29 21:51:58
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Nicola Rowland Blade hair :
I feel the same about my mum !
2026-06-30 03:33:15
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❗️📦 ezekieloshea |-/ :
just because you understand / acknowledge the reasoning why, it doesn’t ever take away from the damage it still caused for you. ❤️
2026-06-29 19:31:25
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jayneallen42 :
My mother doesn’t want forgiveness. She doesn’t think she’s done anything wrong so she’s not looking for it
2026-06-30 22:11:30
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Sophie :
Some things are just inexcusable and you can sometimes never forgive anyone for that even if they are family
2026-06-29 20:58:50
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rose :
Well said 😘
2026-06-29 22:48:21
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Rehana :
You have such a pure heart Mel, what your Mum did was because of who she is and the choices she made, she doesn't deserve your forgiveness. However you deserve to live a beautiful life despite all the heartache, I hope you find/are living in peace now ❤️❤️❤️
2026-06-29 22:22:45
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Kelsey❤️🔥🐾 :
you shouldn't have to
2026-06-30 23:59:24
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