@growthisaspiral: I’ve found that the people in my life who still support MAGA either weed themselves out and write me off, or they remain my life. And the ones that have stayed and still call me friend and still pick up the phone to call me, I feel this ultimate amount of grace towards them. Maybe something I say will click. Maybe we just need time. I don’t know and I won’t know for certain unless I keep the line of communication open. Writing them off just confirms what they already believe about those on the left. And I really do believe the only way some of this information is finally received by MAGA is if it comes from someone who also once supported MAGA. I could be wrong, but I won’t know unless I try. I know most people probably don’t understand this, but there’s also this thought in the back of my mind that I can’t just imagine losing my entire family and friends in one fell swoop. If they want to write me off, that’s fine. But if someone doesn’t want to and is okay with being around me, then I’m going to remain a potential bridge for them to wake up. #leavingmaga #maga #deconstruction
You still have the energy for it. After a decade plus I’m tired. But I also am THANKFUL another wave of people can be a new resource.
2026-06-29 22:34:14
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kelly :
it has been 10 effing years
2026-07-11 17:14:39
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CarolinaBudgie :
Totally agree. We have to have Reconciliation. Otherwise there is no way forward.
2026-06-29 17:13:57
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🌜Crescent Moon🌛 :
I read your description, and I think you have a good point. And for those who recently left MAGA... I appreciate seeing y'all do that work with them. I think those of us who have never been MAGA and have felt the injury on us & those we love, the fight we've been in leaves us unable to extend that kind of grace. We are too busy being a buffer for those who MAGA has hurt the most. And we can't tolerate the inherent risk in allowing any MAGA ideology around our spaces. Plus, we don't have the kind of understanding you have for the nuances of how MAGA works. So as a white person, I am a buffer that's closer to those most endangered, and you are an added layer of buffer that's closer to the threat.
2026-06-29 17:56:57
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⚜️Laine 🍉🏳️🌈 :
One question I have is what happened with that friend? Did you reach back out? Does she know that you’re deconstructing?
2026-06-29 17:17:47
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Neil :
It’s been over a decade since he went down the escalator. I’m over it.
2026-06-29 17:58:24
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andrewstanley135 :
hats off to you or anyone that wants to try being that bridge. I am all for round table discussions however those discussions take place and can only be productive when both parties operate with the same foundation of facts.
2026-06-29 22:20:21
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Justine :
I understand both perspectives. Everyone’s decision is their own. I prefer to stay in contact as long as they agree to keep talking about things.
2026-06-30 20:09:37
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Nicki :
I think you’re in the right place at the right time. And you need to keep doing that work because we need to change hearts and minds.
2026-06-29 22:36:19
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Moedi11 :
We’ve been trying for 10 years. Whatever we are saying, it’s not working. Maybe it’s ex maga that can help wake people up.
2026-07-16 11:22:48
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Jen :
I tried and tried since 2015 and in 2024 I was done. It’s exhausting and it actually hurts after a while. But I’m glad you are still in your trying phase. We need people who still have the will to try.
2026-07-14 13:39:36
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k :
I love this take! For those who have the capacity to be bridge builders we need you. For those who have tried and are exhausted that’s OK too.
2026-06-29 18:07:46
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TONYRICOROCK :
You have my respect 🫡
2026-07-03 13:52:11
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Major Nerd :
I'm with you. It takes very little energy to see them in my feed and I still have a friendship in spite of our distinct values.
2026-06-30 11:51:33
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love.415046 :
Thank you.
2026-07-07 21:34:57
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Julie Hyde :
💙💙💙 I'm proud of you!! Stay strong.💙💙💙
2026-06-30 16:25:58
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Nikki🐞🌻 :
If I would have stopped talking to my mother she would still be MAGA. Now she’s completely aligned with me. She was just uninformed and needed grace.
2026-06-29 21:56:26
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Ann Archy :
It’s too late. At this point, if they still support Trump, it’s too late. There has been so much actual factual information they choose to ignore. I’d rather spend my energy helping good people instead of trying to convince bad people to be good.
2026-06-30 12:38:41
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nivivy :
I appreciate what’re you’re saying, but trying to engage, talk about topics, share understanding is something we’ve been trying to do for a decade. Yes I can acknowledge that where it comes from matters and if you personally want to try to “open eyes” wish you luck. It’s a mistake for us to look to these hard core MAGA voters to have some epiphany before midterms IMO.
2026-06-29 19:39:24
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Nav Therizo🩷💜💙 :
I just couldn't bear seeing the inhuman takes on my social media anymore. I held on to a lot of people for a lot of years. I just could bear it anymore.
2026-06-29 17:13:15
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withaney :
Many of us tried and tried and tried until we were blue in the face, to talk to our family and friends all of 2015 & 2016 (I cut people off late 2016/early 2017). But some continued to try 2017–2020, and didn’t cut people off until late 2020. And then you have that small percentage left trying to convince y’all in 2023 & 2024 before even they finally gave up (some were newer or first time voters who didn’t get to fully experience their friends and families bigotry until the most recent election). But even they could not sustain and recently gave up as well. At this point it really should be former MAGA to do the work and talk to their own, because they never listened to us a decade ago anyway. Keep it going, we support you, but we’re all “tried” out.
2026-06-29 17:39:06
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betslodge :
I agree! If you are willing and able to work with people . I had to protect my peace with some people bc it got to the point of abusive. However, I applaud you for doing it! I grew up in Georgia and there and a lot of my family is maga. I live in Colorado now. Keep up the amazing work
2026-06-29 17:19:41
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Spiritofthetimes :
I’m abt to go home to visit my wonderful friends…and MAGA family. It is good to hear this before I go. Thanks. Keep sharing 💖
2026-06-29 17:18:21
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Thomas Linzi :
Those of us who were never in it have difficulty understanding the people who are. That's why your voice is important.
2026-07-07 14:08:38
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Maggy :
I don’t think it’s effective long term. I’ve never been MAGA but I won’t cut my friends and family who are. There’s still hope for them if we help.
2026-06-29 17:34:12
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