@bookswithamanda212: Healing will not look the same for everyone and it sure isn’t linear. But one of the most frequently left comments I receive on my videos is a variation of people assuming I grew up rich, privileged, with no sorts of struggle or trauma simply because they don’t like that I’ve healed. I’ve put in a lot of hard work to be where I’m at today and I’m not going to fake being humble because you are insecure and hurt. I’m resilient and I’m proud of where I’m at. I don’t have to look like you and you don’t have to look like me and that’s okay. But if I can give someone a sliver of hope that they can come out at the end of their own trauma happy, healthy, and at peace in life, then I’ll keep talking. #trauma #traumahealing #HealingJourney #growthtiktok #growthanddevelopment

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krystinamaysonet
Krys :
Casey needs therapy and a hug.
2026-07-20 16:45:38
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_beltha
Beltha :
Well said. Misery do love company unfortunately.
2026-06-29 18:06:00
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hangsaman
Nik :
Yes. And I rarely see the inverse. Healed people do not necessarily impose healing on others cause they already know how much it sucks
2026-06-30 14:09:38
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tifftokumentary
Weezer 🐦‍🔥🇵🇸🔻🏳️‍🌈🌎 :
the kindest people have been through the most turbulent past. don't take their kindness for weakness 💜
2026-06-29 22:00:15
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wickerbasket77
gam3rking :
I can’t lie even I mistakenly saw you as someone who just seemed to have it all figured out but the only way for someone to truly become that way is to go through things and have overcome them. And yea you should look at it as a positive thing for the most part because it means none of that trauma reeks or leaks off of you. I’d really like to get to that point if it’s possible for me. Would you care to make a video on healing past trauma even more broadly on “sinning and making mistakes and atoning” would really appreciate your insight on it
2026-06-29 18:04:35
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aleksandraa119
Aleksandra Alex :
surviever envy
2026-06-29 21:43:02
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simregis
Sim :
precisely! I’ve faced myself so deeply that I don’t need to wear my trauma like a badge of honor lol
2026-06-30 10:43:27
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spookyglittergoddess
✨𝕾𝖍𝖆𝖎𝖑𝖆✨ :
This has been on my mind so much the past few weeks and it’s made me realize some things about some people in my orbit. While it’s not about comparing struggles I realized just how tone deaf things in these dynamics were. There was a huge gap in my background and me always choosing doing the inner and outer work versus someone feeling entitled to things changing for them despite not having obstacles and being well off. I can’t lend an ear anymore to people who know what they need to do but simply won’t do it because it’s hard or uncomfortable.
2026-08-02 03:36:33
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camillian97
camille 🌙🍸travel + discover :
I have so much respect for you. I completely agree, when you live life being ok with being uncomfortable, you will get through anything. I also had a really tough era during my childhood and the amount of work it’s taken to get to where I am where people would never know def makes me proud. It’s so strange how so many people don’t like to see the “underdog win”
2026-06-29 18:46:52
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wi11ie305
Willie :
we don't have to act constantly broken or emotionally crippled just because we have been through horrendous trauma. this is why I am so harsh on people who "can't control" themselves. stop lying to yourself and using that excuse to be a POS person.
2026-06-29 18:36:54
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minichi000
⚔️ :
I think they think this because of the unempathic way you express yourself about others who are struggling
2026-07-04 23:59:28
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off_per_era
OPE :
Internet people like to perform struggle so they don’t understand you
2026-07-21 22:49:07
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torashelby
Tora163 :
true I think it comes to a point of accountability and responsibility for your own life and breaking a self victimization cycle to fully heal and grow out of the trauma
2026-06-29 18:01:05
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gaby.desu
gaby.desu :
OMFG, this is why ive outgrown friendships
2026-06-30 05:14:52
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aporium.index
Aporium :
your confidence is earned. It's clear in your thoughts and style
2026-06-29 19:07:02
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iheartthe_90s
Iheartthe90s :
Not to mention, people who grew up rich and privileged can still go through trauma! Those two things are not guarantees of safety in every aspect of life.
2026-07-01 12:28:51
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sirrcumference
sir :
I have absolutely noticed this, like since I’ve been through trauma I can’t basically have hope for being different through healing. Working through my shit and the disciple it takes it not something everyone thinks they can do(they can they just have to want to!), like I understand my brain has had some neuropaths rewired but the brain is so malleable and I have worked hard and long at my resilience and discipline!
2026-06-29 23:48:07
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mamacita_mac
mamacita_mac :
Thank you for posting ❤️very inspirational and just wanted I needed to hear today
2026-06-29 18:48:43
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benton385
Benton :
You being highly intelligent and self aware is the difference
2026-07-01 03:45:52
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morohachan
MorohaChan :
Also as a fellow survivor of trauma I also feel privileged to have been able to rise up from the d3ad, because unfortunately some don’t, so I also think you have a great point we should feel proud for the ones that couldn’t, and if it bothers others the. So be it it’s unfortunate but we are only responsible for us and we are allowed to feel proud & strive to help others. 🖤✨
2026-07-03 17:25:02
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moon.anaesthesia
Moon Anaesthesia :
omg that makes sense now
2026-06-29 20:31:52
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paulj.evans
Paul Evans :
I have PTSD, I just had open heart surgery, plus two other surgeries over the past 20 months. I have been constantly enduring life for the past ten years. I love my fate as much as I hate what I have had to live through. I’m resilient and I’m surviving life.
2026-06-29 18:52:42
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sealeighh6
🧿Sealeighh6🧿 :
This is such a refreshing and honest conversation 💜
2026-06-29 18:51:32
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thebiggestch
thebiggestch :
This is sooooo beautiful!
2026-06-30 01:19:47
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therealmikebeachy
Mike Beachy :
I'm glad you were able to find a support system and escape your unfortunate circumstances. You're one of my favorite creators, so I'm very grateful to the people that helped shape your outlook on the world. 🥰
2026-06-30 12:07:30
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