@drsarahhensley: Why do some people seem to treat you even worse after they cheat? It isn't always because they stopped caring. Sometimes it's because of cognitive dissonance. When someone's actions don't line up with the person they believe themselves to be, their mind has to resolve that conflict somehow. And one of the most common ways people do that is by changing the story they tell themselves about you. That's why blame shifting, defensiveness, and rewriting the relationship often happen after infidelity. The psychology behind it is fascinating. Tomorrow I'll explain another major reason this pattern happens. And if protecting trust matters to you, check out @Verafied App, the first relationship registry helping bring more transparency and accountability to modern dating. #drsarahhensley #infidelity #relationshipscience #cognitivedissonance #verafied

sunbrnt :

Literally what happened in my situation. 16 years married. In the middle of divorce

user6360697288460 :

Why do you think I have never been cheated on?

Brooke :

This. This. This.

Hapburgers :

Would you ever get into a relationship with someone who has cheated?

metallicarr0 :

wish I'd hear this two years ago😅

Carmen Garcia-Duarte :

user6360697288460 :

That would break my heart to find out if a man cheated on me :(

Matt Lee :

Water is blue

Jope13 :

That’s very interesting 🤔

Valkyrie0209 :

He treated me SOOOO much worse.

jorgello21 :

🙏🙏🙏