@thepottymouthguru: One of the most painful experiences in a relationship is walking away wondering whether your feelings are the problem. Not because anyone helped you understand them. Because the conversation slowly shifted until you were defending your reactions instead of talking about what caused them. Healthy relationships make room for two conversations. One about what happened. One about how each person experienced it. When one person's experience is repeatedly dismissed, minimized, or treated as evidence that they're "too much," emotional safety begins to erode. You don't have to agree with someone's interpretation of an event to become curious about why it affected them the way it did. Curiosity builds connection. Character attacks build distance. ❤️🤟🏻🌿 #UNFUCKYOURSELF #THEPOTTYMOUTHGURU #RelationalTrauma #HealthyCommunication #Relationship
‘You ruined my day’ was my wake up call. At that point I knew enough to know I was not being treated well.
2026-06-29 20:07:20
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The Pottymouth Guru :
The moment someone's feelings become evidence that something is wrong with them instead of information about the relationship, repair becomes much harder. ❤️🤟🏻🌿
2026-06-29 19:11:12
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#pugsterpiece :
Seriously, I hate I’m only discovering you now after I just made so many discoveries about myself and the role I was placed in with my family. But it is really cathartic and helps me not to question myself on what I learned. Thank you.
2026-06-30 04:22:10
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I hate that my mother does half of these and i still have 3years until i get to varsity
2026-06-29 19:30:09
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toasty_in_space :
the one that was confusing to me is "you rolled your eyes at me", but what if we really didn't? how do you listen and validated when something is completely wrong
2026-06-30 21:39:58
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Pamela Mars :
My ex got angry at me for telling him he was getting too defensive when I tried to address problems in the relationship, but he did all this stuff.
2026-06-30 04:44:32
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Storm Honeybear :
This really hit home. I recognized so many of these: “You’re too sensitive,” “I didn’t say that,” “You’re crazy,” and “That’s just what you think.” Then it becomes, “Your past is your issue. I’m not your mother or father. I’m not the one who hurt you.” The same things keep happening, but instead of resolving them, the focus gets turned back on me. After a while, I start questioning my own reality, wondering if I’m the crazy one and feeling like I’m just a burden.
2026-07-01 10:26:37
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This is mine and my dad’s relationship 💀
2026-07-01 11:34:06
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heatherchoi49 :
Literally my life
2026-06-30 10:08:17
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JL :
Gosh i just realize i do the 2 last one sometimes when arguing with my bf 😭 (but he did it all 🤔😅)
2026-06-30 09:51:06
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