@evertrauma: If you keep going back to the avoidant who keeps breaking your heart, it is not weakness. It is a fatal attraction wired into both of you since childhood. Why do the anxious and avoidant keep returning to each other when it only ends in pain? The answer is darker and deeper than you think.

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jaymegarcia_
Jayme :
cute animation
2026-08-04 00:24:32
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raymondwong897
Raymond Wong :
avoidance are very selfish people. only care for themselves. when you need them, they will say not their problem. never do anything for you or any thoughtful actions. only what benefits them.
2026-07-17 10:56:15
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salama21212
Salama :
Very difficult to break the cycle because the avoidant person is selfish and not willing to do anything!
2026-07-24 10:24:46
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crazy.mama.136
Jamie :
I don’t want to lose him to someone else
2026-07-03 22:00:25
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chattte
bellefiille :
what if the anxiousness becomes avoidance over the time period?
2026-07-01 23:37:36
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user4179959685510
Tsholo :
I'm never going back to that guy. He'll never love me how I want to be loved
2026-07-04 06:51:43
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citrusbitz
Bad Wolf :
Can someone actually tell me if Avoidant and Anxious attachments can really work out?..Like I really need to know :(
2026-07-13 06:42:36
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hannelie78
Hannelie :
true
2026-08-03 04:41:44
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douhasoukaina
Douha Soukaina :
Can someon answer me, I think the cyclus is has ended My ex partner ended our on-off 4-year relationship after I confronted him about boundaries and commitment. This time he didn’t just come back like before; he blocked me and has been completely silent for 5 months. He didn’t say goodbye or give any explanation, and I’ve never seen him this cold. It feels like he erased me from his life and moved on as if I never existed
2026-06-30 14:58:35
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joennavelle21
Vellaaa :
Yeah im the anxious one but not overacting and my ex is avoidant/nonchalant. He broke up with me after 3 yrs of peaceful relationship so we can focus on our individual growth but he don't want to leave so we agreed to be roommate. He stay with me. He just removed the sweetness and happiness in my life tho it's good coz we're okay as lovers or friends.
2026-07-10 06:44:24
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im.not.katy
🪼 :
lahat naman siguro kahit may secure attachment style magiging anxious attachment style pag nagka partner ng avoidant
2026-07-04 08:45:07
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themidnightdiary74
themidnightdiary :
After my break up with an avoidant, I’m anxious turned into avoidant. So yes, I retreat now and I protect. I’m now afraid of being loved too much, they’ll just leave anyway.
2026-07-10 12:05:50
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btrface.an
𝗔𝗝 88 :
Love alone is not enough if it's exhausting
2026-07-08 06:28:25
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tiana09611
Tiana :
It’s to exhausting it’s destroying
2026-07-11 04:28:47
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ariki_after_dark
ariki_after_dark :
I love this - makes sense to me in my relationship
2026-07-12 02:38:36
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tessavillacorte372024
Etroc Alliv :
I don't chase but it's hurting...🙃🙃🙃
2026-06-30 03:24:55
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xxxhurricane
𝒵𝓃𝒶𝓇𝒻. :
Getting used to it
2026-07-09 06:04:10
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meandmuskaan
🦋 Butterfly :
Break the cycle
2026-06-30 09:06:36
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raymondwong897
Raymond Wong :
i doubt i will go back. feel too emptied for someone. My time and presence is too valuable for her. I am sick and tired of the hot and cold pattern and always the only one feeling the pain. 2 years invested is enough. I am not staying anymore.
2026-07-03 15:46:13
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abundanceofgoods
𝓑𝓲𝓰 𝓢𝓱𝓪𝓫𝓫𝓼 ♡ :
I lost my anxious 🤦🏾‍♂️
2026-07-21 08:00:38
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gushlady
Gushman :
i get now
2026-07-24 06:10:24
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klovely518
Klovely40 :
I’m the anxious one but I refuse to be treated invaluable! It’s embarrassing to chase and no response or actions. Silence is disrespectful but I understand the psychological of the avoidance so I don’t take it personal.
2026-07-24 13:46:20
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sallycharles138
IslandGirl138 :
Omg this is sooooo my relationship right now I’m the anxious and my husband is the avoidant 💯
2026-07-23 00:11:50
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xxabaddiexx
🎀 B i a n c a ✗ˑ𝘰 :
he left me idk if he will come back
2026-07-11 06:50:58
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