@dapper.delinquent: Replying to @atomic.crouton this is a major major problem that i think needs to be dealt with internally. Gold Stars do not have a place in any accepting community. #dapperdelinquent #lgbt #pridemonth #queer #transrights
My mum’s friend is a “gold star lesbian” and she is INCREDIBLY rude to me when I say I’m bi.
2026-06-30 09:56:49
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Malice Alice 💗💜💙 :
Having had encounters with Gold Star Lesbians, I've learned they're all elitist snobs who look down on other lesbians who didn't realize they were gay at like age 10. Gold stars are all biphobic towards bi woman and I have yet to meet a Gold star who wasn't a huge TERF who hated trans woman. Being a Gold Star lesbian doesn't make them better, it makes them privileged and they refuse to acknowledge that same privilege isn't afforded to all lesbians either.
2026-06-30 00:07:43
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Not the KGB :
I'm a gold star pansexual trust frfr
2026-06-30 15:46:58
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Sir Lancelot :
Someone called me a gold star asexual once and I straight up had no response to that bc how the fuck am I supposed to respond to that???
2026-08-24 08:21:14
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Whozat-ItLeo :
when my aunt was pregnant with her son she had a meltdown saying how she "wasn't a gold star anymore" and my mom had to break it to her that she had boyfriends in highschool and college and her first child (a daughter) was conceived through intercourse and so she hadn't been a gold star lesbian for over 20 years. it's a weird mentality and she had to go to therapy about it to even be ok with having a child who is male and acknowledge that her past experiences does not invalidate her sexuality.
2026-08-09 07:56:09
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The Son of the Wolf :
“Gold star” is openly fascist…. And should be treated as that…
2026-06-30 08:35:50
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abzukietujones :
you dont even know what pride is do you? cuz pride is SPECIFICALLY AND ONLY the feeling that you deem pleasurable caused by you believing youre better than an other. you have pride in youre sexuality cuz you think its better. you have pride in youre mustache because you think its better. if you have pride, BY DEFINITION you think youre better. it could be better than your dad, better than your enemy, better than nothing, or even better than your past or possible self. but its still thinking youre better and its still pride. congrats on having a safe enough life that you realised this very easy and very accessible knowledge. dumbass. which I only call you this cuz during the month of sexual pride, you and many others have been SPECIFICALLY gatekeeping both pride AND sexuality is even more insanely, absurdly, bigoted and hateful yet you clearly dont see this and so the only other words I can call an obviously educated man who is CLEARLY willfully ignorant is infact just to call you factually STUPID. but dumbass seems like it gets the point across better.
2026-06-30 06:28:20
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simpy mac'simpton :
seeing as the trans version of "gold stars" are the transmedicalist crowd, that police and suck up to transphobes. yeah, can absolutely agree. the ace comunity also have their "gold star" crowd and every one i have met that has paraded the title around have only ever brought it up to belittle others.
2026-07-07 05:53:19
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No. 1 Carver Defender :
someone calling themselves a gold star is just a major turn off for these exact reasons. like I'm talking when they specifically go out of their way to refer to themselves as such and not those who simply happen to fit the description
2026-08-04 14:35:34
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porcelaindroid :
1000% agree with you, but on a side note: would you happen to remember where you got that tie pin/ornament? I've never seen anything for my aesthetic more perfectly than that
2026-06-30 04:50:39
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PIPZIGGY :
I feel like the expansion of queer identities and slang into complex and arbitrary things in general just causes discourse and upset. It makes sense when queer terminology is brought about for clarity or shorthand or subtlety, but the creation of it to cause social alteration in a negative direction, does in fact cause social alteration in a negative direction, which a lot of people don’t seem to think of. I don’t think if, as in this example, ‘gold star gay/lesbian’ was an existing term, that it’d even be much of a consideration for most of those who use it
2026-07-27 02:29:55
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Phina :
I love when I have to watch your videos twice because you say something valuable but I get distracted by your absolutely incredible style. The tie and pin were very distracting the first time around.
2026-07-07 19:26:26
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radio :
hello
2026-06-29 19:16:26
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Jae The Grey Fae - Original :
Imagine if Gold Star Autistic existed.
These fuckers would flip shit over the idea of "Never fucked an allistic" because of them being banned from a special club that includes only those they see as lessers
2026-06-30 00:39:10
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New Model No.15 :
It's supposed to just be a stupid joke about c-sections, but people literally can't handle not being dick heads about everything.
2026-08-13 15:45:33
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Banshee N. D'Attic 😈 :
YES! exactly this. gold star stuff is dehumanizing and you explained why well. you touched on this mentioning people who haven't had the chance to realize they're queer til they're older - I also feel the impulse to bring up people who have grown up in rural, conservative Christian environments where the pressure is often VERY high on expectations of hetero relationships to what I'd argue is a cult like degree
2026-06-30 16:33:16
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Potato Kitty :
I am a gold star because I'm a virgin, and I never plan on loosing 😎
2026-06-30 13:38:31
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Cimmerian :
Ty never misses ✌️
2026-06-29 22:45:16
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ThatOliviaThing :
I’m a gold star ace… if you count that lol
2026-07-04 05:27:45
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🫒mythtic_code🏛️ :
Why the hell is a man talking about a lesbian identity? And better yet, berating the women who claim it!
2026-06-30 07:40:03
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☆ Nova ☆ :
i used to work with a self-appraised "platinum star" gay man because he was also delivered via c-section and he was one of the most elitist and snobbish queer individuals i have ever encountered
2026-06-29 19:54:19
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Nether taxi :
I remember once an asexual person told me they identified as a “platinum star asexual” bc they’ve never had sex before AND wasn’t born vaginally so they’ve “never touched anyone’s private area before” and that somehow made them better than other asexuals and I’m just so tired of this
2026-06-29 20:07:51
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