It's not controversial, it's just good and loving parenting
2026-07-14 15:11:33
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kate :
why would you make dating that big a deal?
2026-07-01 19:03:46
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💌 :
I feel like the “no boyfriends until 16” rule doesnt stop anyone, they just do it behind their parents back. I would prefer my daughter have a boyfriend and tell me
2026-07-14 10:25:15
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thatbfdifann :
ur so strict i would cry
2026-06-30 23:02:44
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Gryffindor girl ✪ :
I don’t totally agree with the last one : I think She will actually learn to speak more during social events like school, Where they learn to speak and interact with other kids, but I respect Your choices and think you have your own reasons ✨
2026-06-30 23:20:11
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jay walker⚡️🏴 :
best parenting
2026-07-01 21:21:56
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amelia (juicys girl) :
I actually do agree a lot with the last one cuz it is better for kids to go to nursery and that once they know how to talk so they can make friends and talk to their teachers
2026-06-29 21:47:15
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Havana⭐🪩🏴 :
the only one i disagree with is dating 16+, this will make her more secretive and want to hide things from you, rather than being able to talk to you about the relationship and any problems that go along with it. i’d say make it 10+. kid relationships are cute and a lot of the time they end up being life long friends
2026-06-29 21:57:02
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𝐃𝐎𝐍𝐍𝐀 :
just letting yall know if u set an age like q6 to not date till they'll just hide their bf/gf from you 😭 every single person I know including myself that has this rule just keeps it a secret from family
2026-07-01 13:19:28
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Hiccling :
I understand where you're coming from for the 'no partners till 16' bit, but that would just make her more likely to hide relationships from you if she ever has any before the age of 16
2026-07-02 03:38:23
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Liv (Robins version) :
agree with everything but the bf thing
2026-07-11 16:10:26
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nana ★ :
none of these are controversial, and the +16 for boyfriend thing is actually a standard many parents have that we all know never actually works bc kids keep it secret 😭
i would rather recommend you not to say that to your future daughter. think of it a bit: you won't stop her if she ends up having a boyfriend at 13, BUT if you don't make her feel like she should hide it from you then she might tell you if she has one. and there you will be able to properly guide her through her emotions and puberty and make sure there's boundaries in that relationship that aren't crossed UNTIL she's 16 and knows enough to have a relationship without needing your supervision. i think it's healthier this way, because she won't be scared of you, she will still have freedom yet you will also have the chance to watch over her, which i bet it's your actual concern.
at the end of the day it will be how you say it tho, but i would recommend you to take this (and everyone else who is saying the +16 for boyfriend is not a good idea) advice into consideration
as a last side note: also consider the possibility it isn't a BOYfriend what she ends up having. idk if you are ok with it or not, but just because you don't wish for it doesn't necessarily mean it won't happen, so always have in mind "unexpected" outcomes
2026-07-01 16:34:57
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CheyenneR_XOXO :
I mainly agree except the restriction for dating cos all it does it teaches her to be sneaky
2026-07-03 09:21:08
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🍏ilkay 𝄞 :
By boyfriend do you mean someone you are in a serious relationship with and go on dates with or just some boy you have a crush on and talk with? Cause going on dates, spending a lot of time together, and being in a genuine romantic relationship makes absolute sense for 16+ only. Just being friends who like each other and call each other girlfriend and boyfriend in middle school or early high is fine though. - To be fair i’m not into anyone romantically so maybe middle schoolers and early high schools aren’t dating in the way I think 😭
2026-07-12 00:56:18
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🌸 Living Our Home Life 🌸 :
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2026-07-10 14:58:54
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~Abbey~ :
See now the “no boys till 16+” will get you a lesbian
2026-07-01 15:22:45
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