This is the worst thing I have ever gone through. I have held my ex on a pedestal for over a year with little evidence he likes me back, actually there’s evidence he doesn’t want me at all but I keep coming back because i literally think he’s secretly in love with me. It’s extremely painful my whole mood revolves around them. It’s like when he’s not in my life I need him to keep living but when he’s in my life I’m in constant pain because I constantly think he’s leaving.
2026-06-30 01:40:32
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Vicky Taylor :
It is absolutely BRUTAL
2026-06-30 13:54:15
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Fred javad :
thanks
2026-07-01 16:13:42
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CYNCITYYY :
Limerence almost literally destroyed me
2026-07-01 00:31:15
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Thedagnabbit :
Not everyone that has limerence has BPD.
2026-07-01 15:45:33
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Onigiri :
Oh shit!!! This is why I rather be alone!! I used to do that and it's a nightmare!
2026-07-01 14:59:24
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nicolameikle0 :
Intermittent Reinforcement Relationships create this too
2026-06-30 12:08:27
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neurodivergentsworld :
I just want it to stop. It hurts I don’t like this at all.
2026-07-01 03:35:57
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Kitty ✨ :
I just don’t want to experience this anymore. It’s too much
2026-07-01 03:09:06
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Grill :
Ive only heard of this word once before and completely forgot about it. Great video.
2026-06-30 20:35:32
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junglistcutie72 :
doing it now 🥺
2026-06-30 19:58:43
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🖤💛Rachelvengeance22💛🖤🌙🧿 :
Yep. it’s a problem..but usually it don’t last,I move onto the next new shiny thing that gives me a dopamine hit.
2026-06-30 09:41:21
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user9284121781755 :
Yes, im going through it again at the moment
2026-06-30 11:41:32
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Nico ( the Disco Don ) :
yes
2026-06-30 21:27:22
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Jess :
had this with my boss for like 2 years, i quit so many times because of it but always went back, im slowly learning so iv distanced from him now, ruins your mind having a faverout person! isnt love its obsession
2026-06-30 20:31:55
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expanding consciousness :
yes this .....my x
2026-06-30 12:13:58
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sunny T :
It sucks
2026-07-01 16:38:13
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🗣 :
That would be me too.
2026-07-01 16:11:55
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Lilsuzy :
Limerance is also found in people with Autism and ADHD.
2026-06-30 06:54:04
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Vanessa Paquete :
I had that for more than 20 years with the same person. 😳 It was absolute hell, I can tell you.
2026-07-01 08:55:35
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eenymeeny :
how can anyone feel like this towards another person it sounds quite dangerous and scary they need to love themselves first
2026-06-30 22:12:25
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♌️TDA♌️ :
I HATE it!
2026-07-01 06:51:25
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C :
Can you have BPD even though you had a very happy childhood (though difficult High School Years not related to the home life)?
2026-07-01 13:39:09
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Goddessofdarkness :
That’s insane.. this is yet another sign of my bpd whatttt theeee😳😳😳
2026-07-01 02:12:56
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dreamyshark :
I’m a devaluation girlie, but on some level I kind of have limerence-like tendencies. On top of BPD I also have reactive attachment disorder which I think plays more of a role than limerence. I have a general dislike for all people so when I do get a little attached I blame it on the RAD, especially since my go to in a split is devaluation but I definitely can understand the pain in it
2026-06-30 01:16:56
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