Except I don’t end the relationship, I just sit there in agony and hope I become worth it again oh GODDDDD😭😭😭😭😭
2026-06-30 15:03:20
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Dolphin :
Wait kirk me real quick
2026-06-30 14:57:22
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Jello Cat :
The last one isn't rlly anxious it's more fearful avoidant
2026-07-02 07:09:01
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Evilratfinksandwich :
how am I supposed to stop when my fears are confirmed every time I let my guard down. every single time.
2026-06-30 21:47:36
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Anastazia :
Oh so im avoidant AND anxious ???
2026-06-30 13:53:44
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lil.head.joni :
it sucks to be like this, all I want is the reciprocation
2026-06-30 10:01:32
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Jxsus_00 :
It's а chіldhоod wound. At some poіnt in yоur childhood you fеlt emоtionаlly abandoned sо whеn yоu didn’t receivе, yоu try to рrоve yourѕelf tо feel worthy so уou subconѕciоusly chasе that validatіon from thаt pеrson. You hаve tо heal thе root сauѕe of it internally bу rеwіring your corе beliеfѕ. Highly recommend reading Healing Isn’t Prеttу bу Mіra Hаrtson, іt's а wоnderful book.
2026-07-01 00:40:29
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izabellariveros22 :
Holy shit I was read like a book
2026-06-30 04:51:33
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eclipsal_4 :
Don’t forget the “trying to reconnect with someone and you’re all excited to talk to them again but then they seem as distant as when you left so you stop tryna engage with them.”
2026-06-30 19:23:10
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pia :
isnt that fearful avoidant aka disorganized attachment style?
2026-06-30 11:53:42
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lavwi :
I've seen the avoidant and anxious is there a post like this but disorganized??
2026-06-30 22:38:23
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yasmin :
whoopsies
2026-07-01 06:31:20
2
April Sky :
Well would you look at that 🤓 the thoughts I give into are the fuckin problem
2026-07-01 00:00:20
1
froggi.e :
stop looking at me
2026-06-30 16:26:50
1
Eli 🐾 :
gulps loudly
2026-06-30 06:57:27
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tayla★ :
I get the ick if they’re not obsessed with me
2026-07-01 04:51:34
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16unicornzoes :
last one is avoidant attachment :) as someone who studies attachment styles in psychology
2026-07-01 02:57:53
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Liz 🫐 :
no wait im working on it
2026-06-30 16:20:58
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Lasse Dietrich :
God just send me someone anxious so we can reassure each other the love is staying and we're not gonna leave each other
2026-06-30 16:01:17
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kissmy_asshhhh :
ooooooo do disorganized attachement i’m invested
2026-06-30 01:46:08
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