Literally, I’m so bad at picking up when people just wanna complain as someone that likes to fix people‘s problems that I came up with a whole phrase that I say before they start venting so I could figure out how I’m going to approach the conversation it’s called “ release or repair “ they tell me which one they’re going for and from there on determines what I am thinking while they are talking otherwise my brain automatically think of way that I can fix things disregarding whether or not it sounds like they’re asking me to fix it
2026-07-22 14:52:47
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Cherri Jamberry :
Listen and then WHAT?!? Sitting in silence feels like I’m being dismissive 🥲
2026-06-30 11:54:04
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Rolo :
I didn't either
2026-07-20 21:43:13
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Macfly26 :
I thought you got a buzz cut
2026-06-30 02:22:07
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☆Don'tDrinkSoap☆ :
put this on my old therapist's fyp
2026-07-22 05:11:11
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dingle dumbass :
but solving other people's problems is all I know how to do
2026-06-30 04:09:10
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Zenitsu_Agatsuma_the1andonly :
I didn’t either until I found out my ex was doing that and manipulating me at the same time…she was scary 😬
2026-07-20 19:13:30
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pixeldotpngcat :
FINALLY SOMEONE SAYS IT
2026-07-21 13:22:10
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Torrin Foxglove :
really?! *insert existential crisis*
2026-07-21 02:05:26
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Felix’s bleached to death hair :
Advice to therapist friends from the chronic crier: tell us before u solve our problems so we can astral project away while u do ur thing. Most of us r best at zoning out when someone is telling us important
2026-07-11 02:12:24
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Anonymous_Me :
Oh…. But why do they tell me all of the things….
2026-07-20 10:21:09
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mysterioslysilly :
Holy shit I’m really early
2026-06-30 02:20:57
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Ericoni🥋🌿 :
I always vented but I never wanted solutions, yet my friends left me because “I was stressing them” I JUST WANTED TO COMPLAIN DAWG
2026-07-01 13:42:37
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Bee :
"solution or support?"
"support"
"distraction, rant, comfort, or validation?"
2026-07-02 05:23:46
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шооуоцпg's аss еатеr :
They already know the answer and what to do. They just struggle to do it and it takes time to solve an emotional problem. You can't solve someone's problem, I'm sorry. You can't hate them for not solving it either. Just be there for then when they need it, they'll really appreciate it.
2026-07-02 07:25:56
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TheDoorstepWitch🏳️⚧️ :
I've learned to say, "hold on, do you want solutions or just to vent?" It's INSANELY effective. I just wish it didn't take me 30 years to learn that 🤣
2026-07-02 01:02:45
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collarpopkiss :
“Are we asking for a shoulder or solutions?” I had learn this
2026-06-30 11:52:11
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Trippy_fruitcup :
See I don’t know how to let someone vent without giving advice. Like. What do I say? Do I just sit and listen and not acknowledge what they said??
2026-06-30 17:05:44
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aja tarron :
for me I know the solution I don't need you to tell me. I'd rather you VALIDATE MY FEELINGS than dismiss them and make me feel wrong for feeling them bc I didn't talk about a solution 😭😭😭
2026-06-30 06:10:48
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Danielmo :
I've been assigned the role of therapist friend because I naturally knew when they wanted solution and when they wanted to vent
and then neither was enough and I felt like a failure at my assigned archetype and had an identity crisis
2026-06-30 03:02:06
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Aj :
Dannnyyyy please drop the skincare routine 😭
2026-07-17 10:58:45
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Salem🏛️🚦🏳️🌈 :
Honestly yeah… I’ve just started asking if they wanted me to give advice or just listen
2026-06-30 02:48:05
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°☆LYRIC☆° :
THAT'S WHAT I'VE BEEN SAYING
2026-06-30 14:21:18
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demi.th3.goat :
I just ask before hand “do you want solutions or someone to listen?”
2026-06-30 07:00:25
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