"I can handle you" famous last words. Nobody can handle me, I just want someone to listen, to understand why I am the way I am without judgment or leaving. Why is that SO hard to ask.
2026-08-04 15:59:04
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Taryn :
He started calling my his own freaky Nikki. Shit hurt so bad tbh knowing How people see me
2026-08-17 00:23:57
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₊✩‧₊˚🪦Jeff the killer🪦˚₊✩‧₊ :
i THINK I have undiagnosed bpd and I’ve been noting things and experiences for months now, it’s so hard to be a in relationship I’m going crazy at this point
2026-08-13 12:18:36
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Mar :
My girlfriend has bpd, I try to love her patiently and gently, im scared I might say something or do something on accident Ànd it might cause her to split. I still love her so very much
2026-08-13 17:56:20
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rt :
idk yall my bf handle me jus fine he a real g
2026-08-28 13:23:49
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monica.mp5 :
I always wonder if i dated someone with BPD while having it, would it be the best or worse thing ever?
2026-08-03 19:57:24
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laylah.loveee :
I can’t even handle myself I’m going insane, spiraling
2026-08-12 15:39:22
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🍯 :
It takes a specific person who can be level headed in the hard times and they can rationalize things when you have tried or you need someone to give you their perspective. It also takes you having the willingness and motivation to actually work on using coping skills. Your life should not be put be in someone else’s hand. That is very unhealthy like your life isn’t your partners responsibility. They are supposed to love you as a whole person. Not as a crisis they are responsible for managing. What’s scary is half of these comments have that mindset. This is coming from someone who has been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder and it took me 7 years to actually start to be able to cope with things myself, but I also do reach out to my support if I need of helping myself isn’t at my capacity at that moment. DBT therapy + medication + Support system + having hobbies really fucking help.
2026-08-12 15:59:38
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Harrypottersjockstrap :
it’s actually no one’s responsibility to take care of you! coming from someone with complex bpd i went to dbt therapy and am on a medication regimen and i live a very happy healthy life no one is responsible for you and your reactions!! hope everyone gets the help they deserve we don’t have to feel like this!!!
2026-08-12 23:25:15
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Jodanse🏅 :
I wish good luck to my boyfriend
2026-07-26 10:07:52
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Bro😼 :
I’m slowly making my bf hate me.
2026-08-19 18:52:16
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🌙 Elliot ׁ ៹ :
“please talk to me about your dark thoughts, i want to help” and then blocked me when i did. which is reasonable, but at the same time pushed so hard for me to speak when i knew how it would end
2026-08-14 08:14:33
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𝐄𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐚 𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐫 :
Scared to repost but just know I was here
2026-07-01 01:03:37
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🎵 blk herrscher of melancholy :
bpd has ruined every close relationship i've had
2026-08-12 22:53:56
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Cₕₐₒₜᵢc :
A bottom ten and top ten life experience is a bpd and aspd relationship
2026-08-20 16:07:28
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𝓍𝑒𝓁𝒶 ❤︎ :
i swear ppl romanticize bpd/ mental illness until they’re in a relationship with someone who suffers from it and the person shows symptoms of the mental illness and then apparently they’re the villain.
2026-08-14 04:12:28
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taylor :
my man puts up with it but it’s hard there’s not one day where i don’t crashout over something but he knows how to handle ne
2026-08-23 01:45:24
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𐌋Ꝋ𐌔𐌕 𐌉𐌍 𐌓𐌄𐌀𐌋𐌉𐌕𐌙 :
and he just cheated on me.
2026-08-08 19:38:27
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Ana. :
And I hate myself for it
2026-08-09 14:35:00
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thobropro1 :
Im a boy with bpd😭
2026-08-28 23:22:01
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