@ohso_semiko: Women are natural nurturers… but nurturing and rescuing are not the same thing. One of the hardest lessons I’ve learned is this: if a grown man has never learned to stand on his own, it is not your job to become his foundation. I’m not talking about a man who built a life, hit a setback, and is working to rebuild. Life happens. I’m talking about making yourself responsible for solving problems that he should have learned to solve long before you arrived. Sometimes love isn’t stepping in. Sometimes love is stepping back and letting people develop the skills they’ll need—with or without you. What do you think? Agree or disagree? 👇🏽 #D#DatingAdviceR#RelationshipAdviceW#WomenWhoDateH#HealthyRelationshipsDatingStandards