@iheartmusic234: (this video is a draft) --> things not to say to people struggling with abandonment issues OR suffering from a disorder that causes fear of abandonment. These can be really triggering because issues with attachment have a reason behind it like trauma in most cases #fypシ゚viral #attachment #bpdtiktok #MentalHealth #mentalillness

Rubes cubes :

“Don’t feel like that” is one

🇻🇳 eden 🧡🤍💖 :

the way my ex bsf said all of those 😭😭

melisa :

“Move on” I BEEN TRYING FOR 2 YEARS

itsdestinypearl :

“you chose to be like this” always made me stop and just stare bc having bpd is off childhood trauma so i always hold back sm. bc wym i chose this.

𝐈 𝒍𝐨𝒗𝐞 𝐂𝒉𝐫𝒊𝐬𝒕 ✝️ 🥀 :

How do you warn someone that you're going to break up tho? 😭

Al :

Bpd/attachment issues don't mean you're not responsible for your actions. If (even if it's not on purpouse), you continously harm your partner or those close to you, they have a right to maintain distance or go non contact. It's one's responsibility to get help and do the work necessary to become stable.

Vina :

i have more in comments

𝒜🕯️ :

MrsJKHernandez :

" your being dramatic it was just some little touching " I WAS 5 IT WAS AN CHILD ON CHILD ASSAULT .

RYOZ :

well tbf people w bpd even tho not their fault are evil ill stand by that after my ex

🌜 :

As someone who feels music. This song reminds of what it feels like to feel a split building, while there’s a part of you trying to think logically and you end up splitting anyway 💔

Ella⁷⁷ :

if someone said this to me I would jump them

kels 🌺 :

the “you’re not the only one with problems.” my moms favorite argument to use against me and it makes me split every time 😭 like duh everyone has issues but mine feel so much worse.

ambrosia :

heavy on "you chose to be like this" I DIDN'T AND IM TRYING TO CHANGE💔

🎸🍁 Mike 🍁🎸 :

"Calm down" I WOULD BE FUCKING CALM IF YOU'D STFU AND LEAVE ME ALONE FOR TEN MINUTES

𐔌 🎹៸៸៸ user ♡'ˢ f/os ᵎᵎ 🌈 ꒱ :

"js move on" its not that easy

superhoser8 :

"shut the fuck up and stop making everything about yourself" somehow hurts less when from another cluster B 😭

౨ৎ Musa ꣑ৎ :

My FAMILY said I don’t have any empathy when I was dissociated. Even though I’ve been letting myself slip mentally just for them to be happy

⁺‧₊˚ ཐི⋆ 𝔐𝔦𝔨𝔢 ⋆ཋྀ ˚₊‧⁺ :

I hate when people say that to me

っ ̯ -｡𓈒𓏸︎︎︎ᶻ 𝘇 𐰁 :

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￴ ￴ ￴ ￴ :

got the break up no warning last Friday 🙂

‹ ︎ ˖Ი𐑼⋆ 𝙏ᴴᵒₘₐₛ 「🕯」 :

BPD with avoidant tendencies. The minute you say this shit to me, I'm splitting and you'll never hear from me again. my ex didn't even get a break up text.

poefish.gunch :

All things my ex said

KORIE ?! :

“I’m way too irritated for this right now” oh okay so