@thelostone614: When your father dies, it's not just a person you lose. The foundation of your family changes. You're still a family, but it no longer feels like one home. My siblings and I were already adults, yet we still lived together with our parents. When our father died, it felt as though we suddenly became much older. Responsibilities came all at once, and the pressure of figuring out our lives grew heavier. Eventually, leaving home seemed easier. Growth felt more possible outside a house filled with grief. Instead of bringing us closer, the pain created distance. The arguments didn't heal our loss they only widened the space between us. #grief #deaddadclub #dad