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Maddie :
This took me 4 hours… that’s a lot of work. I can’t imagine doing that every day.
2026-06-30 18:21:11
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Vì | Golden☆Starlight :
i explained this stuff to my mom the other day. she was floored
2026-06-30 11:17:31
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Cassava San Francisco :
It’s essentially same as the trad wife content but whenever anything is Japanese it’s viewed as “dedication” and “devotion” when it’s so easy to tell why the trad wife trend is problematic.I’m with you 100% and I’m a Japanese woman💪
2026-07-15 05:42:48
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dr rejectsuperstar :
i felt this also when eating yakiniku while living in japan. me and another asian am femme would often be the ONLY non-men in the place! and we would get STARES. this was only a few years back
2026-06-30 20:38:38
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Toast :
my mum used to pack me lunch with cut veggies. not in shapes just in bite size pieces. at a certain point she stopped because it was so much work. as an adult I completely understand now. could not imagine doing all that every single day and be judged if I didn't
2026-06-30 15:43:56
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x3<3 :
I'M TIRED
2026-06-30 14:44:41
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Kira :
Oh. I like you
2026-06-30 12:08:25
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セン :
so informative. love ur content 🙏
2026-06-30 10:52:17
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じゃがいも :
多分キャラ弁のことを言ってるんだと思うんだけど、あれを毎日する訳ないしキャラ弁毎日作ってる人好きでやってるんだよ 好きでやってる人の好きを否定しないであげて欲しいな
2026-07-05 09:47:09
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pompombudyn :
Im nearing the end of my exchange year in Japan and all of the things I have experienced are making me rethink my future career plans bc living here for work and having a family seems exhausting idk
2026-06-30 15:02:17
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soph ·˚ ༘ :
i understood before u began to explain
2026-07-01 09:59:44
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AG :
the idea that their mom needs to make delicious food AND make it cute 😭 my mom did not have the time or the energy for that she was working full time, so there’s this expectation of being a sahm or doing all the extra labor i think
2026-07-02 21:32:42
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BN :
聞いたことないわ爆笑よく探したな
2026-07-02 00:14:12
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よーた :
日本のお店に行くと男女でメニューが違うって！？日本に住んで30余年生きてきて初めて知ったよ！どこの日本料理店の話？
2026-07-30 09:50:10
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ケイレブ :
そんな話きいたことないよ？
2026-07-03 14:36:25
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femmegore🫸♂️ :
It very much is a problem because like you said, parents pack less protein for girls meaning girls dont feel as full, women suffer from iron deficiency the most because of blood loss from periods and protein helps with that which also affects fatigue and concentration. Also a lack of protein causes slow growth, there is proof that during the first thousand years of the patriarchy, women's bones became more fragile and brittle than their female ancestors because of lack of nutrients being given to girls as they weren't seen as worthy because they were seen as less than men. TLDR: ingrained beliefs matter because they can literally affect your body and brain
2026-07-26 00:31:36
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𝕷𝖎𝖏𝖆𝖍♱ :
Fathers aren't expected to do the same for their children, despite being parents too.
2026-08-07 02:02:30
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♡ :
彼女が言いたかったのは、お弁当=単なる「抑圧」じゃなくて、女性に期待されてる役割の「象徴」だってことだよ❣️もちろんお弁当を愛ゆえに自分が作りたくて作ってる人も、父親でお弁当を作っている人がいるのも正しい。だけど、お弁当を作るという役割は主に女性が担うことが多い。毎日お弁当を作るのは本当に大変で、「栄養や見栄えを考えないといけない」というプレッシャーは少なからずあるし、他の家事もあるから更に大変。そして、お弁当は子供が学校に持って行って他の子と食べるから他の家庭と比較されたり評価されたりしやすい。そんな大変な仕事を女性の多くは無償で引き受けてるということ(楽しんでやっているかどうかに関係なく)、気づかないうちに社会で共有されている「母親は毎日お弁当を子供に持たせるべき」という意識が、日本の男尊女卑の慣習の表れだって言ってるんだよ。個人の経験とか感想とかじゃなくて社会全体の話。そして、彼女が動画で男の子用/女の子用のお弁当の具材の差について取り上げたのも、男尊女卑やgender role(性役割)が象徴されている例だったからだと思うー
2026-07-14 21:01:28
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★ 𓈒˚. 🦝 𝒎𝒊𝒂 ﾐ ✶˚ ₊˚. :
I don’t live in japan but my mom is Japanese and she has made many bentos when I was younger just for fun. She said it took so so long and she had to wake up early in the morning just to be able to make it. Not only that but you need lots of tools and gadgets to be able to make it as well. I cant imagine having to do it every morning for many months.. here is a bento she made before
2026-07-26 01:51:14
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♡♡♡ :
なんか好きで作ってるのに否定された気持ちになるわな、この動画
2026-07-05 12:01:45
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みみ :
お弁当について複雑に考えすぎじゃない？私はキャラ弁なんて作ってもらったことないし（作ってほしいって思ったこともない）中学は給食なかったけど母が弁当作れない日は買い弁してたし弁当間に合わないからあとで下駄箱入れとくね〜ってこともよくあった（笑）兄がいたからか茶色いおかず多かったけど米が進むし別に嫌じゃなかった（笑）
2026-07-07 19:05:29
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