I watch a lot of bento making videos and now idk how to feel
2026-06-30 17:11:03
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dr rejectsuperstar :
i felt this also when eating yakiniku while living in japan. me and another asian am femme would often be the ONLY non-men in the place! and we would get STARES. this was only a few years back
2026-06-30 20:38:38
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ashlee :
I make cute bentos for my kids once a week , it takes a really long time to do x
2026-07-06 08:03:40
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Maddie :
This took me 4 hours… that’s a lot of work. I can’t imagine doing that every day.
Im nearing the end of my exchange year in Japan and all of the things I have experienced are making me rethink my future career plans bc living here for work and having a family seems exhausting idk
2026-06-30 15:02:17
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Vì | Golden☆Starlight :
i explained this stuff to my mom the other day. she was floored
2026-06-30 11:17:31
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セン :
so informative. love ur content 🙏
2026-06-30 10:52:17
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Toast :
my mum used to pack me lunch with cut veggies. not in shapes just in bite size pieces. at a certain point she stopped because it was so much work. as an adult I completely understand now. could not imagine doing all that every single day and be judged if I didn't
2026-06-30 15:43:56
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soph ·˚ ༘ :
i understood before u began to explain
2026-07-01 09:59:44
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AG :
the idea that their mom needs to make delicious food AND make it cute 😭 my mom did not have the time or the energy for that she was working full time, so there’s this expectation of being a sahm or doing all the extra labor i think
2026-07-02 21:32:42
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🍅 :
It is certainly true that we need to change the mindset regarding gender roles when it comes to making bento boxes. But have you ever made a bento for someone, or had one made for you? I am Japanese, and I had them made for me from high school through university; I also make them myself twice a week. A bento is a form of communication—an act of love—so it is truly disheartening for Japanese moms when people who have never made or received one weigh in on the subject.
2026-07-05 15:52:43
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ケイレブ :
そんな話きいたことないよ?
2026-07-03 14:36:25
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KODE KROM : NABIKJND :
TALK MORE I WANT TO KNOW MOREEE
2026-06-30 14:12:09
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♡♡♡ :
なんか好きで作ってるのに否定された気持ちになるわな、この動画
2026-07-05 12:01:45
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arunadeya19 :
I have a boy and two daughters, they get same meals every day, lots of protein 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
2026-07-01 06:05:07
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