@opallauryn: This kind of behavior has been normalized, but it is anything but “normal.” #patriarchy #men #relationships #intimacy #women

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tiktok..tracy
Tracy :
I can’t even change without expectations
2026-07-01 17:50:04
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ifyouonlyknewnow
JJ :
Because of all this…. I rather be alone.
2026-06-30 14:48:34
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maggiepie4
Maggie Pie 🇺🇸🆘️➡️🇨🇦 :
I'm divorced, asexual and get my hugs and closeness from my dogs. it's so much better.
2026-07-02 03:10:37
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listen.i.own.ferrets
listen.i.own.ferrets :
Back rubs?! I am even careful with what I wear in the house… Baggy T-shirts and loose pants.
2026-06-30 21:27:02
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atherealrose
DJ Athereal Rose 🌹 :
This is an extremely important conversation.
2026-06-30 14:57:41
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nine.lives.art
Tawni Malia | Artist | Writer :
It got to the point where I stopped even hugging my ex because he took it as an invitation and then I had to argue about why I didn’t want to mid day. Then I was the bad guy for never being affectionate with him 😒
2026-07-01 13:54:32
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amyscheetztatta
Amy Scheetz Tatta :
I used to love getting my legs scratched by my partner, but it was never something I could ask for without knowing I had to give something back. I don't ask for anything now. I'm single because I can't find anyone that is just kind and loving.
2026-06-30 15:13:00
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violetenvy43
VioletEnvy :
As someone who's asexual but still cares for physical intimacy, this is so frustrating to see
2026-06-30 19:09:45
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talligood03
Tiffany✨ :
But for real? Yes. I’m married and still feel this way at times.
2026-06-30 18:51:20
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annwenthiking
Ann :
I hated being married because of this. No one told me it would be that way and when I found out I got divorced
2026-06-30 22:28:44
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dominsje0mc
neek_fg4 :
Ugh, what I would give to have a cuddle session, head scritches, even a forehead kiss...
2026-07-01 12:35:20
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millza29
aleesh :
I AM SO HAPPY TO BE SINGLE. i dont have anyone breathing down my throat about how I should feel and act after my day at work
2026-07-01 06:15:41
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kourtnischaos
Kourtni’s Chaos :
I had a conversation about this with my fiance and since then we have had no issues he didn’t even realize it was happening
2026-06-30 16:46:57
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damearchie11.11.00
DameArchie11.11.00 :
You are absolutely right! I'm 58 years old and thinking about what I have put up with in the past is mindnumbing💙💙
2026-07-01 12:45:16
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themajesticvivi
Majestic Vivi 🩷🏳️‍⚧️ :
Yeah, I'm finally standing up for my boundaries.. Its been tiring
2026-06-30 14:51:06
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little_woodland_pixie
💖💗❤️‍🔥 :
It’s devastating :( It’s definitely ruined dating and intimacy for me
2026-06-30 20:50:35
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kileydav
KileyDav :
Omg this. It drives me nuts
2026-06-30 18:01:20
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joannewells48
Joanne Wells. 🇨🇦 :
alone is so peaceful
2026-07-01 14:13:26
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kanon0h6
kanon06 :
I learned at 20 when I was innocent and naive that a back rub is never a back rub. I at 35 have not had a backrub since.
2026-07-01 19:15:06
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avagrava4
𝔞𝔳𝔞. :
Sometimes I just wanted to snuggle on couch with my (now ex) husband but I just. Would not even try because I knew what would happen 😭
2026-06-30 22:04:56
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shamrockurwrld
Shamrockurwrld 🌍 :
Ive always felt less desirable cuz I don't have a high sex drive (I might even be asexual to some degree) and its made me hate dating.
2026-07-01 02:32:58
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syrupfilledsippyc
syrupfilledsippycup :
I’m so grateful for my husband, Jesus
2026-07-01 19:36:07
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emmy.etienne
Modern Day Emmy 🇭🇹 :
We should expect safety. In all spaces and all levels.
2026-07-01 22:05:08
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teresa.garner15
Teresa Garner :
I miss platonic touch. I gave up decades ago. Touch always means something or is transactional I just hate it and want nothing more to do with it.
2026-07-01 20:08:54
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