@officialkevinwarren: We had this ah-ha moment in my house the other week. Helping kids identify, label and appropriate emotions is not easy. THIS was especially difficult to get to the root causes of. Most high performing kids feel judged because they do so much more than others and it brings more opportunities for criticism and correction. Help them learn to manage those emotions that come from correction before it turns to resentment. Where they feel other people see and understand them more than you, simply because you’re responsible for bringing the correction. #LIFE

LIFE
LIFE
Open In TikTok:
Region: US
Tuesday 30 June 2026 14:48:08 GMT
63966
10284
184
2668

Music

Download

Comments

_becomingsacred
The Human Behavior Strategist :
The sandwich method ..
2026-06-30 15:28:45
77
honeybellhollow1
Honeybell Hollow :
What you feel is the emotion your choice/actions are causing you to feel. If you feel shame or guilt, it's because you know you were wrong. Those are ok emotions to have, it's how we learn.
2026-07-01 16:22:55
296
burton1015
BigBruh :
Thanks for reminding me I’m not alone
2026-07-08 02:01:40
1
nessavg91
nessa :
its not the correction for me its the tone and how its addressed.
2026-07-01 18:40:42
155
selfishlessbastard
DocRockland :
this is it. this is good parenting. correction without connection equals shame.
2026-07-01 00:46:01
88
_lady.legacy_
Alissa :
Please understand if you haven't laid the foundation of TRUST meaning you haven't focused on positive reinforcement, building a healthy attachment and supporting them through failures all your "constructive criticism" will be taken as criticism. It will hurt, it will feel like an attack and it will create resentment. It will feel like your love is conditional.
2026-06-30 20:38:26
115
shley_bee
Shleybee :
Teaching our kids how to work through embarrassment and shame in a healthy way is one of the most important thing we can do as parents.
2026-07-07 20:35:31
1
luhshawtylo
BIG LO :
It really takes a certain level of maturity from the receiving end of this to actually accept this form of love from your parent. I struggle with this with my dad to this day and I’m 30 years old. But i know his love for me and all his kids runs so DEEP. Can’t lie and say it’s easy though.
2026-06-30 17:43:33
93
metamama23
metamama23🇵🇷✌🏽♎️ :
Correction AND Praise wrapped in love, respectfully.
2026-06-30 17:12:38
39
xmrscyanidex
Catherine Smith :
you are meant to sit with that feeling for a minute. it sucks and you feel like shit......but one day you will understand
2026-07-01 20:04:29
6
cooltxdefence
coolTXdefence :
Thanks from another dad
2026-07-01 10:10:29
9
drewpoche_
Drew Poche' :
This is why education and phrasing is so important when it comes to correction, you’re not embarrassing them or shaming them, you’re pointing out their behavior and its their behavior that is causing shame or embarrassment to themselves, you’re not causing it, you’re pointing it out, that’s a disconnect that a lot of adults have, “You disrespected me” no, your behavior is disrespectful, pointing it out to you is giving you a chance to have accountability and correct it, but instead so many can’t see correction for what it is, they only see an attack, drop the ego and be humble, that way you can grow and be better, keep having these talks and educating the next generation! They desperately need it, and mentors that put in effort, like you!
2026-07-01 20:18:11
12
beer_cheese
Beer_Cheese :
the timing seeing this is perfect
2026-07-01 17:56:47
8
capriciouslycapri
RissaRoo 🔥 🐯 🍉 :
“Don’t punish me for being the one who loves you enough to bring the correction to you” Yes!! 👏🏻 I try to at least make it an open face crap sandwich- “this was good but xyz needs work” because the world will more often than not make the correction hurt more than I do. Man, I just love all of this!
2026-07-01 17:31:29
6
r.c_inc254
RC :
100 this the conversation I'm trying have with my kids... Everything I do is for you.. IM NOT LIVING YOUR LIFE, YOU WILL
2026-07-01 21:43:18
6
juno.thevibes
Juno.TheVibes :
“To the healing stakes” is powerful
2026-07-01 12:56:30
8
mamadonna11712
Rae🌻of sunshine :
Parenting can be HARD. We were give no manual, didn’t have to take a test or get a license. This is why I watch you. My kids are grown, but some healing is needed. 💕
2026-06-30 15:53:15
26
mrmaque19
MrMaQue19 :
FACTS!!!.... My son and I had this talk the other night. Corrected or held accountable.
2026-07-01 00:00:33
7
stephrenee001
stephhh :
This is healthy and necessary parenting!!! I remind mine that the correction is better to come from me as the parent rather than the world and those therein. As your parent, your mother, I am going to love you, correct you and always stand ten toes down for you and with you.
2026-07-01 01:05:19
5
wigglebuttfarm
Mother Clucker :
I know it is none of business but I'd.love to learn from her response.
2026-06-30 16:21:22
5
nattumsmcgee
Nattums Mcgee :
just a tip I've learned, refrain from all or nothing statements of another person's character or pattern. "you always say this, you always do this, etc" I'm bad for that with people and thankfully have a safe space with my partner to practice in.
2026-07-02 20:46:21
1
flubberknuckles76
☀️FlubberKnuckles☀️ :
This
2026-07-02 18:30:48
1
bredforstrength
• J • :
W
2026-07-02 21:41:09
1
aprilrosebudd
April :
Yes yes yes
2026-07-06 18:29:35
2
dameionaruto
Dameion :
same in any kind of relationship. people be acting like someone "putting someone down" when someone wants better for you. We in a society where truth and correction is seen as attacks and negatives.
2026-07-04 03:17:59
2
To see more videos from user @officialkevinwarren, please go to the Tikwm homepage.

Other Videos


About