Hannaaakate :
Depends on the child and the division of custody. I’m happily married but our first born is physically disabled, he requires; hydrotherapy once-twice per week (private), physio in the hospital weekly, fortnightly appointments, special shoes, particular dietary needs (almost double the cost of a standard child) - he also does recommended activities to help his mobility and heart conditions. Just on what’s mentioned here it costs (£84 x 2 weekly hydrotherapy sessions, £8 fuel/parking physio appointment weekly, £8 fortnightly hospital appointments, £130 shoes/fitting monthly, £50-60 on specific foods, £12 dance lesson, horse riding for mobility free as we have horses £40 for half an hour if we didn’t have horses) that’s £1258 per month on medically necessary care for one child, we have a second on the way. Personally it should be a case of breakdown all costs (if medically needed proof from DR provided), and the costs halved if custody is 50/50.
2026-07-01 11:43:25