@kelleydaring: #decentermen #emotionallabor #marriedlifebelike #matriarchy #marriedcouple

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amanda_dillard
Amanda Dillard :
Thank you so much for sharing your story! I just applied to get my associate degree because I am working on centering myself!
2026-07-01 01:26:28
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rebirthwithlatonia
Dr.Rebirth :
💯% agree!
2026-07-01 03:52:04
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swayingletters
SwayingLetters :
Do you have separate bedrooms? I feel that meditation and journaling before bed would take up a lot of me time. How do you respond to him wanting to sit with you when you have other stuff to do?
2026-07-02 21:03:05
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electrokineticist
💫🛼🪩 electrokineticist :
See, this would obviate the need for most affairs. 🤷🏻‍♀️
2026-07-01 08:00:28
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carolcsisar
Carolyn Lopes♥️ :
such a powerful inspiration❣️especially loving each other through the transition
2026-06-30 23:38:30
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just_roar_66
Just Roar :
I agree with 90% of what you’re saying, but I think believing you could just go your separate ways with no drama is pretty close to impossible. I’ve never heard of a marriage ending without pain and pain changes people. We can never really know until it happens.
2026-07-01 04:19:55
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amy_shopping
user6057234577503 :
You need to do a Ted Talk about this…
2026-07-01 16:12:58
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jessicasmith9650
jessicasmith9650 :
I need to hear how you worked through conflict during this process. Did he ever blow up or accuse you of doing something wrong?
2026-07-02 11:52:01
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katiecoop
Katie Coop :
how do i explain to him im trying to do this without seeming selfish
2026-07-01 00:51:02
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aurora_inthewind
aurorainthewind :
i love how you are talking about centering yourself instead decentering your husband. It’s a proof of what you’re talking about. Thank you for sharing!
2026-06-30 23:37:45
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lyd_makayla
lydia :
having a SO does not determine my ability to be happy but having a SO increases my happiness and I think that's so beautiful. CHOOSE EACH OTHER.
2026-06-30 23:36:20
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randonmaniak
@randomaniac :
im in the same situation, working in what i want before worry about him. and is true, he doesn't measure it he just keep going, im tired of explaining. I packed my circus, collected my monkeys and if he wants to see my show again, he will need to work for a ticket
2026-07-01 08:51:44
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forthetuna
HoldMyPoodle :
love the hair btw
2026-07-01 00:00:45
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phantpauf8p
IslandtimeNZ💛LS💛 :
Remember to give ourselves as much compassion as we give to our partners..
2026-07-01 23:19:02
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kiersten1019
Kiersten :
I LOVE this. Thank you for this series!
2026-06-30 23:36:13
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ruvbc5n33cscskhi
Laura Gallup :
Love your content! I am engaged and have been thinking a lot about all of this. But I sometimes ask myself - what is the point of getting married at all? If my goals don’t include having kids, staying together til death, etc - should we just not do marriage? Is there still a benefit or reason to do it?
2026-07-01 18:59:28
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siobhanjko
Siobhan :
I love women.
2026-06-30 23:39:20
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stixcinna
StixCinna :
it would make me feel better knowing my partner is there because they want to be, not because they feel like they have to be.
2026-07-03 16:52:56
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popsnapjoy
Imagine :
Revaluate every 5 years.
2026-07-01 13:43:58
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pen_theo
Pen & Theo 🇦🇺🦘🐨🖤💛❤️ :
Gosh, if I had tried to do this in my marriage to my wife, she would have KICKED OFF!! In the end, I left because I knew this would never be an option
2026-07-02 14:31:47
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bx_robby
Marx :
This sound like ima dip if you fall on hard time. This isn’t a team for real this is an LLC
2026-07-03 01:21:04
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theyearofbrandi
The Year of Brandi :
I think we need to blow up the traditional definition of marriage it’s simply not working for most people. I love my husband and have been with him for 34 years but I wish I wasn’t brainwashed by 80s teen movies 😬
2026-07-01 00:01:17
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sixwolves6
wolfecxqp5z :
Do you have children? I’m just curious because I think parents do have an obligation to stay together unless there is abuse of some kind.
2026-07-01 01:01:13
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sideduck95
side duck :
OK but let's say one of you gets sick or faces a disability - how does this framework address your marriage then? If you're all about you and just you, are you allowed to run out on your spouse if they have a vulnerable moment and might need you? Marriage is also supposed to be a committed relationship between two people who love one another. Can you just turn love off the second something occurs that would mean you may have to de prioritize yourself and your needs?
2026-07-01 19:20:58
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parmelia_sulcata
😶‍🌫️ :
I started following you when you read stories of women who regretted having children & that saved me from guilting myself into having kids because my partner wants them but I don't. we got married young (I was 21, now 30) so its been hard to navigate. many times i felt i should have them to make him happy.. I am glad I never fully listened to that part of myself. Thank you so much for those videos then, and these new ones. they are helping me to follow in your footsteps and decenter him in our marriage and also decenter men from my life in general. I've got a long way to go, but I truly cannot thank you enough.
2026-07-03 23:36:11
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