@tellyourstories0: I've been married for eleven years. My husband is one of those dads every mum at the school seems to like. He's friendly, chats to everyone, always remembers people's names. Even the teachers know him. I'll be honest, I used to love that about him. I'm a bit more reserved, so it balanced us out. About six months ago, I changed jobs and started working from home three days a week. One Tuesday morning, I decided to do the school run instead because he had an early meeting. When we got there, something happened that caught my attention. Another mum walked over and asked, "Where's Ben today?" I laughed and said, "He's working." The smile disappeared from her face for a second. Then she just said, "Oh... right." It was awkward. Really awkward. I didn't think much of it until a few weeks later. I was collecting our daughter early because she'd been sick. That same woman was outside the school. She walked over and apologised. I asked what she meant. She looked confused and said, "I just assumed he'd told you." My stomach dropped. She quickly realised she'd said too much and tried to change the subject. I stopped her. She told me that for almost a year, she and my husband had coffee together after dropping the kids off. Not every day. Just whenever they were both free. She said nothing physical ever happened. She even swore on her children. According to her, they'd just... talked. About work. Marriage. Life. Then one day she told him she was starting to have feelings for him. He immediately stopped meeting her. Blocked her number. That was the end of it. I asked my husband about it that evening. Everything she said was true. He admitted it straight away. Then he said something that has been bothering me ever since. "I didn't tell you because I dealt with it before it became an affair." I honestly don't know how to feel. Part of me respects that he walked away. Another part keeps asking... If I hadn't found out by accident... Was he ever going to tell me? And if someone hides something to protect the marriage... Is that still lying?
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extremesnorlax :
so he had a friend, she developed feelings and he instantly broke it off with her? isn't this like a huge greenflag
2026-07-01 12:47:24
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Sheikh boxing :
Need my wife to see this so I can stop doing the school run
2026-07-01 19:47:45
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J :
He did nothing wrong. That’s a good man.
2026-07-01 13:06:50
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◢ ◤BrokenArrows :
Him going for the coffee and never telling you about it means he knew he was doing wrong in the first place
2026-07-01 18:59:48
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Rose :
Everyone’s missing the point here, he kept their coffee meets a secret from his wife, if it was innocent then why would he have never mentioned going for coffee after school drop off with a school mum
2026-07-01 16:38:23
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The Time Travelers :
Click bait, this never happened
2026-07-11 09:04:43
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Markie :
He made a friend and when said friend said she had feelings he stopped it immediately. Nowt wrong with that he's loyal, she tried to make something out of it by telling you.
2026-07-01 13:43:24
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charlottetalks77 :
The secrecy is the issue
2026-07-01 17:39:20
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Jaysonlifts :
Secretly meeting someone is almost as bad as cheating. Secrets create mistrust. If he didn't tell you, its because he knew you wouldn't like it, so knew it was wrong.
2026-07-02 11:14:04
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Sid Dead returns :
nah he made a friend nothing wrong with that. then the friend wanted to take it further he cut off all contact... Good man imo
2026-07-02 09:45:11
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Toots :
Nothing wrong with a friend but why wouldn't you say "hey dear, I got chatting to xx and we grabbed a coffee" Unless you either felt you had to keep it secret or wanted to keep it secret. Either way it's a problem
2026-07-01 14:17:24
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user7503987576732 :
Isn't it strange he didnt mention getting coffee with someone so frequently to his wife?!
2026-07-01 20:06:47
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o.koduck :
As a dad and husband I don't accept that he didn't tell his wife he was having coffee with another woman for almost A YEAR. If I had found that out about my wife I'd be very disappointed.
2026-07-02 06:26:44
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Tamarra 💗 :
Would have been okay if hed told you from the start 🙃
2026-07-01 17:52:41
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Kaz :
The intentions were there on both sides I’m afraid
2026-07-01 19:31:51
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ktstroph :
I would not want a marriage where such things were kept a secret
2026-07-01 13:12:04
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Missora :
the truth is he enjoyed the attention but didn’t want to jeopardise his marriage for it.
2026-07-03 16:05:16
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TM :
Is your husband Phil from Modern Family
2026-07-04 01:25:00
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Ryan :
But why wouldn’t he have told you that he met someone for coffee in the first place
2026-07-01 15:10:34
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Aimee 🍉 :
“Before it became an affair” means he had FEELINGS just chose not to act on them. Thats not great in itself
2026-07-01 22:25:53
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Permanent PTO :
Did nothing wrong. He related to her as a friend. When she indicated it was more for her he took action to squash it. Didn’t deny anything because he did nothing wrong. Telling in advance just creates unnecessary stress and drama.
2026-07-01 21:17:00
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Dinah :
Secret coffee meets? What was he discussing about the marriage?
2026-07-02 07:55:04
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Chris Kennedy :
Nah, my wife knows where I am, and who I’m talking to, unless I’m surprising her with something. I’m not risking my happiness for ANY secrets from her.
2026-07-02 17:52:19
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Realtor Jerome :
so this is the difference between "honesty" & "transparency". he's honest and loyal but his lack of transparency is a problem.
2026-07-07 04:01:02
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