maybe he doesn't feel safe to express his feelings because of how you react?
2026-06-30 22:27:27
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my brain shuts down when i'm surprised or when i'm feeling an intense emotion. i often find it difficult or impossible to actually collect my thoughts and process enough to respond thoughtfully and fully in those types of moments. but i don't say "i don't know what to say," i say, "i want to give this the thought and response it deserves, and to do that i need some time to process." the first way says "i don't care," but the second way says "i care a LOT." (also important is that i actually DO spend time processing and thinking and actually DO follow up with a real and sincere response, which shows it wasn't just an excuse to get out of the situation.)
2026-07-02 00:01:42
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User369369369369369 :
i have an issue i need advice on 👀
2026-07-02 19:11:32
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