Bella Dane
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🌙 :
Yes - friendships where you’re constantly “calling each other out” instead of just having fun and getting along with each other, are exhausting
2026-07-01 08:19:38
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🪩 :
this!! my friends are flawed people and i’m fine with that cuz so am i!
2026-07-01 19:50:54
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Z :
This only works if both people are compassionate and empathetic
2026-07-01 01:58:03
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Fiona :
yup! i don’t always “critique” my friends unless they personally ask me, im their friend not their educator, parent or lawyer, sometimes i will even support their decisions even when i wouldn’t personally do that, what we do though is hold each other accountable IF NECESSARY
2026-07-01 13:49:08
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slightlyhaunted13 :
A level of acceptance is needed for long term friendships
2026-07-01 20:17:53
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chebaby💋 :
Bc people don’t actually want friendship they want someone to fill a void for them
2026-07-01 07:07:31
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Tori DiPaolo :
People call people out without looking for a solution? Lmao
2026-07-01 11:52:16
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bri weeks ☆ :
this unfortunately only works with friends who are also willing to address the problem, trying to do this with passive aggressive friends is nearly impossible (in my experience)
2026-07-01 20:55:00
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Elizabeth :
Communication is in fact key
2026-07-01 00:59:01
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Ian Tusk :
You’re adding a negative connotation to call out I belive, it’s just another way of saying confront. You expressed confronting your friends, you did it in a tactful way that comes from a place of earnesty, that’s all it really takes
2026-07-01 20:05:44
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nicole 🪐 :
Loud and wrong!👏🏼 if my good friend is finding it necessary to “call me out” on something I’d probably listen to them because why would a friend stand around and let you consistently fuck up hahaha
2026-07-17 13:44:52
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Blackbellaswan :
My girls give me grace and I give them it back tenfold
2026-07-02 14:27:51
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Lifestyle with Lexi 🦋 :
I tried to explain this to my little sister. You have to accept people are flawed. Have discernment to know when something is malicious but in order to maintain friendships you have to be willing to extend grace.
2026-08-08 13:43:19
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Princess💛 :
Expressing your feelings should not be a confrontation and vice versa. But this gets lost when both people don’t have that understanding
2026-07-01 15:33:15
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Léah ^-^ :
This doesn’t work in Portland Oregon unfortunately
2026-07-01 21:46:02
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ellaokam_ :
The problem is many people don’t have this mindset
2026-07-01 04:12:09
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_ :
And I hate ppl gaslighting others into thinking if you don’t call out your friend you’re an awful friend
2026-08-09 23:08:03
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lou :
This just builds resentment. Just say it straight away and move on. The faster you point it out the less of a big and heavy conversation it is, people who are good will just listen and change
2026-08-08 00:35:01
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Caitlyn Should Be ✨🦇🪻📖 :
Yup!!! Sometimes my bestie of 25+ years pisses me off. I take a deep breath and move on because she is a fundamentally good person and doesn’t need me to criticize her.
2026-07-02 11:23:34
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Tabita :
It's not that black and white. Things get complicated when you outgrow people, and they start to resent you for that instead of supporting you.🤷🏻♀️I don't call people out either, I just distance myself. I honestly don't feel like explaining why I want to grow and evolve.
2026-07-01 08:16:17
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Orna :
I understand this take but I also feel like expressing if you've felt hurt by their behavior or if you read a situation differently than they did is kinda important even if there isn't like a clear 'solution' to it is also important, I am an extremely non confrontational person but when I don't express how I feel and just hold it in I definitely feel like it leads to accumulating resentment and I would absolutely not want that with my best friends and my loved ones so I have seen that just expressing how each of us feel has been really helpful and helped build more trust and even deepen the friendship
2026-07-01 20:24:35
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Diya :
This only works if both people communicate effectively and display some level of empathy to each other. If not then the other person is allowed to express what’s frustrating them. A person can only take so much until a confrontation occurs
2026-07-01 21:18:32
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Aiesha :
I like this approach honestly. We can be honest with our friends but honestly no one wants to feel like they’re constantly being attacked or bombarded with these emotions based on expectations or shit someone is taking personally. Now, if someone constantly dismissed how you feel previously, you may be upset but if a friend seemingly always has vitriol against you…yeah
2026-07-01 14:40:58
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Princess :
I tell them how I feel and if they react terribly I’m out
2026-07-01 17:18:29
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Ruby 🍸 :
No exactly. No notes
2026-07-01 00:56:48
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