Erika
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Wednesday 01 July 2026 01:27:12 GMT
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EL 🌸 :
I went through this…but don’t worry, it keeps happening in your 30s ☺️
2026-07-01 02:06:45
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* ੈ✩‧₊˚carlie* ੈ✩‧₊ :
why are u in my head rn🤨
2026-07-01 01:32:39
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dilfbagger2 :
I do this hyper fixation and then lose feelings when I get to know someone lol
2026-07-01 03:18:14
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🌱aylor :
so I’ve actually never had an original experience
2026-07-01 01:32:26
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musevddict :
I RELATE SO MUCH, I feel ashamed of everything for some reason. I’m doing EMDR to try to help.
2026-07-01 02:26:47
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victoria <3 :
hahaha i used to be this kind of avoidant for like yearssssss. totally understand that and def didn't think i would ever be different but i am super happy in my longer term relationship atm and it's crazy! like who am i lmfao
2026-07-01 01:47:41
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Lee ! :
Do you only feel this way with potential romantic partners or does it extend with platonic friendships? Also I fear you should NOT watch BoJack Horseman cuz that show has so much of what youre feeling
2026-07-01 01:36:52
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...... :
Loving the group therapy 🫠
2026-07-01 01:35:52
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snoopy :
fellow exmo here, sounds like the guilt could've stemmed from that especially since it started as a kid for you. I feel you tho, I also hate being perceived!!
2026-07-01 02:25:25
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✨Liz✨ :
Wait I’m so happy we can talk about this. I’m so ashamed having these thoughts but this is like helping me lowkey
2026-07-01 01:58:58
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shya⁷ :
No literally. I’m scared by the fact that someone might eventually get to know every part of me and no longer want to be with me…yk. Like I’m not disgusted by what they give, I’m more like disgusted that they’ll see all of me and be like “no.” Lol 😂
2026-07-01 01:51:40
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savbluu :
This is 2 real
2026-07-01 01:47:48
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Destiny D’sheara :
Wait why did this actually happened to me VERBATIM
2026-07-01 03:15:12
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Kandeypantz :
limerence
2026-07-01 02:14:03
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Olivia :
You’ve literally articulated everything I feel and think and experience as an almost 26 year old who has also never been in a relationship or even had any form of romantic encounter 😭😭😭
2026-07-01 03:10:08
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scoutparkerknox :
Okay so from the perspective of a 28yr old asexual(potentially aro), it took me a long time to unpack the difference between what i had been told would make me happy (ie a partner/romantic love etc) and what actually made me happy. sometimes you just need to follow you nose on what feels comfortable and right rather than trying to force yourself to meet these larger social/societal pressures. I love me a cute kdrama romance and romcom etc. and i can enjoy that without thinking that i need those things for myself to be happy, does that kind of make sense?
2026-07-01 03:12:56
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e m d :
thank u for saying this. i feel this way and it is hard.
2026-07-01 01:35:09
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les :
hey so i don’t like how u just went into my head.
2026-07-01 01:49:36
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taereams :
So how do we fix this 😭 let me know if anyone finds out
2026-07-01 02:38:31
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amber.random :
ive never felt more seen
2026-07-01 02:52:33
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hannahh :
I was like this. And it changed when one certain person confessed to me. And I had to turn them down bc I knew my mindset would hurt them. In my mind they were the sweetest person I knew, and as soon as they confessed I had a breakdown. Like they didn’t know what they were thinking. Anyways took a good year to work through why I thought I didn’t deserve someone to truly know me, and love me/like me. But yea, some way some how my husband broke through that, but I still very much struggle w it at times. Like damn, you chose me for the rest of our lives ???
2026-07-01 02:31:50
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emily 🫧 :
well yes
2026-07-01 02:19:17
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cynthia🌿🧿🐚🫒 :
Saving this to show to my therapist thanks 😘
2026-07-01 02:23:58
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