SirKayOfCamelot :
My old dog used to be dog reactive. We worked on it and she eventually reached the point where she wasn't just fine with other dogs, but actively enjoyed their company. However, for the first several years of her life, she was not okay with other dogs! She wouldn't seek them out at all, but if they approached her and she felt at all overwhelmed, she would react accordingly, which sometimes meant snapping at them. (She never bit another dog, but that's because I knew her well enough to get her away from other dogs as soon as they got too close.) So many people who would approach with their dogs without asking to let them say hi, and then they would get offended when I would move out of the way. "Oh, he's friendly!" Cool, she wasn't! And even when she did reach the point of being fine with other dogs, ask before letting your dog go say hi, don't just assume! And take it gracefully if the human says no, they can't say hi!
2026-07-01 03:44:27