All applicants need to know that their school doesn’t care about them. The school cares about a 100% match rate. They will try to pressure you into just accepting whatever, so that they can call you matched and be done with it. You gotta do what’s best for you
2026-07-01 18:08:55
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cora :
Don’t match. 1 hr to cry. <24 hrs to REDO your entire app you spent MONTHS doing that may not be the specialty you want. Then anywhere from 10+, 20+ to 40 ish interviews in 2 d. Some literally 5 min phone interviews to decide your future.
2026-07-01 20:24:30
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Whitneykiana :
Queen you deserved more, you worked your ass off. The system failed you and so many other med students.
2026-07-01 13:01:36
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Samira | Ortho PGY-1 :
I’m so glad you found a spot! You were a stellar applicant when we rotated and I’m glad your value was noticed
2026-07-01 17:36:24
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Elle PCee :
I helped 2 friends from med school through soap …. Soap requires an army. We had a war room working on programs, letters, redoing the personal statement…. Everything. You cannot do it alone. It’s insane that your app took months to be reduced to 12 ish hours
2026-07-01 22:17:49
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BasiaDavis :
there’s no reason for SOAP to be like this! it probably takes what like 30 seconds for the algorithm to run after all rank lists are submitted then they sit on the results for months. why can’t there be something more less chaotic between then and match day??
2026-07-01 20:43:30
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Just living :
What did u end up soaping
2026-07-01 07:45:45
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drdaniberry :
This was a traumatizing time 💔
2026-07-01 09:38:29
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thatoneguy188 :
Thats wild. They really need to change the entire structure of the soap
2026-07-01 05:45:04
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Neisha RM :
12/700? Even if the odds weren’t in your favor, this still tells me you’re THAT girl to me! You have done amazing, and I’m glad you matched!
2026-07-01 17:46:27
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Dr. Victoria Hodkiewicz, MD 🩵 :
Omg….. genuinely did not realize it was THIS BAD
2026-07-01 11:44:11
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cinchybrunette :
The entire process, even starting from MCAT and then all the way through to match— genuinely feels like a hazing ritual. I understand the reasons why match is competitive, but what I don’t get is WHY it is made to be so cut throat and brutal to soap and decide your future under that kind of timing/stress 🥲
2026-07-01 18:00:28
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Hello :
I’m terrified for this upcoming cycle. I never thought of the possibility of SOAP and booked a vacay in Asia at the exact same time
2026-07-02 01:26:37
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Future Dr. Jeweler :
Do some people take a year off and try to match again the following year in their preferred specialty? Is there a downside to doing that?
2026-07-01 13:33:44
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k💗 :
I’m so glad you had good friends to help you through it 🥹
2026-07-01 13:18:35
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Dr. Lil Bill :
thank you for sharing this! this experience sounds TRAUMATIC tbh but such valuable information you cannot learn anywhere else and a very real reality for a lot of people too afraid to talk about it - good luck girl 🤍
2026-07-03 02:52:51
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Dr.DavisPGY30 :
I hope you can fall in love with family medicine! My husband did a primary care sports medicine fellowship and works with D1 college athletes and loves it. I also would love to have you on our podcast to tell your story if you’re up for it.
2026-07-06 14:50:35
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SillyPenguin :
My best friend in medical school was in the Army and she matched into ortho in the Army. Did her intern year and ended up HATING it. Switched to family medicine and now she is an attending in the Army and truly living her best life. I hope this bump in the road turns into the gateway of your best life
2026-07-01 23:08:43
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Maddie :
Previously wanted ortho with auditions and didn’t match two years in a row and SOAPed into EM. now gearing up for my first job after graduating residency! It sucks and it’s ok to grieve!!! But you are so strong!!!! Here to talk :)
2026-07-11 01:10:15
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user5738395960692 :
I’m so sorry honey. I don’t believe in “allls well that ends well”. You’re allowed to be traumatized. You’re allowed to grieve a career you won’t have a chance to pursue. You don’t have to pretend to love family med. You just have to accept it, and move forward. 🥰
2026-07-01 13:50:04
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helenasthesia :
i’m so sorry you had to go through this but i’m so happy you’re being so transparent and talking about it on here so others can learn from it 🥹😭 you’re truly amazing! im happy things are working out for you and only wishing you happiness ❤️❤️❤️
2026-07-01 16:54:13
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Aliya, MD :
holy crap I can't believe this is the process 😭 i'm so proud of you
2026-07-01 21:15:48
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★ brooke pantaleo ★ :
i hope you can take time to be so proud of yourself for getting through all that 🫶🏻
2026-07-01 12:37:30
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k💗 :
Please make a part 2 about family med!
2026-07-01 13:23:21
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