lyphorenia
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gadgadigadagadagoo :
One time I cried in front of someone I love because finally, after almost a year, I got the courage to open up why I've been acting the way I am b4. Voice trembling, eyes getting blurry, and mind you there were other people (stranger and that person's family too) but despite that I still pushed myself to open up. I had a similar past like this too with someone else and that person knew that plus I don't really talk with my family so doing this is really hard for me. But I did because I didn't want to lose that person... FAST FORWARD after ko mag open wala siyang ginawa... gets ko namang hindi siya fan of hugs pero kahit simpleng assurance or comfort through words wala. hinayaan niya lang hanggang sa baguhin ko yung topic kase ang awkward na nakikita ako ng ibang taong umiiyak and ni hindi niya man lang din ako matitigan kase alam niya sa sarili niyang totoo mga sinabe ko at na sobrang sama ng pakiramdam ko sa sitwasyon namin. So now... whenever doubts starts to creep in or I want assurance, I just distance myself kase alam kong hindi niya kaya I handle yung lalim ko pero kahit pa, mahal na mahal ko parin siya at ayokong iwan siya...
2026-08-19 19:33:05
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Willy Wonka :
The idea that the cycle would just repeat itself. Sometimes the only way to stop or quit is cold turkey.
2026-08-20 20:56:22
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私|Gon :
it's easier to make a distance than to explain
2026-07-01 16:09:33
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niah :
I think people assume distance means someone stopped caring. But sometimes, distance is what happens when someone has been holding everything in for so long that they no longer know how to put it into words. It’s not that they don’t want to explain themselves. they replay the conversation a thousand times in their head. They imagine reaching out. They imagine finally saying everything they couldn’t before. But fear is loud. Fear of being misunderstood, fear of making things worse, fear that it’s already too late. So they choose silence instead. Not because silence hurts less. it doesn’t. It hurts every single day. But somehow, it feels safer than risking another wound. I don’t think people like this ever stop caring. I think they just carry their love, their regrets, and their explanations alone until, eventually, they convince themselves that distance is the kindest thing they can offer.
2026-07-02 17:03:56
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even na mag explain ka maghahanap parin sila ng dahilan kesa intindihin 'yung mga sinasabi mo.
2026-07-02 07:53:25
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ketket^^ :
maybe it's because of past experiences that whenever they try to explain things, they just never get understood. or maybe they're afraid of getting misunderstood. maybe yes... maybe no..
2026-08-19 06:26:48
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idk :
id rather sleep with a heavy heart than explaining how i feel to someone who would just invalidate my feelings. its way more painful, been there.
2026-07-02 06:31:46
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Hoshi :
ang hirap i-explain. gusto mong magsabi pero ayaw mo ring isipin nila na baka sila yung dahilan kung ba't ka nagkakaganyan. you don't want them to feel bad and apologize, you don't want to make them feel like sila yung mali—ang gusto mo lang, intindihin ka nila. simple, right? but asking for understanding is also like asking for too much attention, or you feel like you're just a burden. that's why I, myself, di na lang nagre-reach out.
2026-08-15 22:16:50
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Persephone. :
Cuz not everyone wants to understand. Some only see the problem and ignore the explanation. Thats why sometimes distance is better than draining urself trying to explain over and over again kahit di mo naman kasalanan or intention. ( happening to me rn)
2026-07-02 11:09:46
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chaii :
silent repost
2026-08-20 05:13:13
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kLo :
literally me 🥀
2026-08-19 04:09:15
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ywna_tvt :
nakakapagod din kasi, saying "im here" knowing by the time you rant up, they will just said "just ignore it".
2026-07-02 00:12:39
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Josh :
ako lang ba hindi nagsasabi about sa nararamdaman ko, para hindi na makadagdag pa
2026-08-15 16:38:52
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fleeeur “(ノ _ <,, ) :
daming tanong ha
2026-07-02 11:54:55
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sushi. :
ang hirap mag explain, judge me na lang po
2026-07-02 13:56:38
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xì :
Maybe because at the end of the day no matter how hard you tried to explain yourself, their perspective will always be different 🧍♀️
2026-07-03 08:33:32
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Gabrielo :
nakakapagod kasi pag paulit-ulit
2026-07-06 04:52:18
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… :
Nakakapagod na din naman kase eh. Yung tipong gusto mong mag explain pero iibahin nila ng pag intindi, like gets nyo ba ako haha. Lalo na sa mga taong pinapairal nila yung emotions, hindi makikinig sa side mo at sasabihing “ikaw din naman, ganyan ka din naman diba, my nasabi ba kami?” Eh di ko alam kung meron o wala kasi kayo yan eh. Pero lahat naman tayo iba-iba ng sensitivity diba, pero bakit yung iba sinasabi na “apaka shallow ng reason mo, para yun lang” like gets ko ha pero sana naman intindihin nyo din nararamdaman ko. Sana aware din kayo na may nasabi kayo or nagawa na masakit para saamin, tas mag aact like nothing happened ganun. Nakaka ubos din kasi minsan kung ganun eh, dapat aware na din kayo kung ano yung nagawa nyo kasi kayo mismo gumawa at nasaktan lang kami.
2026-07-02 12:57:53
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oks na yon bahala na sila hahaha
2026-07-02 10:03:26
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lyphorenia :
GUYSS, dont worry pwede kayo mag rant / mag open here sa comment section i will try my best to comfort you one by one i won’t judge you guys ‘cuz i’ve been there.
2026-07-02 05:24:37
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no one :
I used to think people who walked away simply gave up. Now I wonder how many of them were actually fighting themselves every single day. Wanting to explain, wanting to fix things, wanting someone to ask one more time but convincing themselves that their silence was protecting everyone else. The truth is, some people don’t leave because they stopped loving the people they left. They leave because they no longer feel safe enough to be understood. And after enough time passes, the distance they created becomes too heavy to cross. So they keep carrying words that were never spoken, hoping one day someone understands that silence isn’t always the absence of love. Sometimes, it’s what love looks like after fear wins.
2026-07-02 17:02:13
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🤣 :
wala wala wala, magulo isip namin
2026-07-05 16:41:00
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