@dr.kojosarfo: How frustrating is it to be told to do things as an adult? #demandavoidance #audhd

Lulú :

He kept going and going

bearbear123 :

May this help never find me

JG :

Why do I clearly understand both sides? I can see myself doing either depending on what time of day is lol

🐾🍮·𝑳í𝒛í𝒓í𝒔𝒔ҽ·🍮🐾 :

It annoys me but sometimes it helps...

🩷 Bri 🩷 :

Being infantilised as an adult is infuriating regardless of neurotype though, isn't it?

Zero Kript :

as an autistic person I understand both sides. I get stressed the same, but I also understand that what there doing isn't ment to be harmful

Ititi Shops 💫 :

I’m irritated because why didn’t she just say that to begin with 😅

essentiel :

The more I see, the more I recognise. All these “small” things all the time , broke me completely.

ashlee_kendrick :

😳 I'm the same way as her

Cacti Joe :

Listen, I am hearing everyone out, I promise. But how does someone actually keep up with this for decades.

christiano_shi :

Ohnonono :

I tell you full stop, this is the same exact scenario of my actual daily life😣😣

kg | vic1 :

helooooo

Michael W Shook :

I feel ashamed. I’ve been both of these people. 😳

connor. :

no no i get her sm im exactly the same ☹️🤍

3m1ly westwater :

Did you tho coz ngl sometimes I just saying did it because I'm annoyed he reminded me 💖💖💖

mackpocono :

Shower and no shower curtain

Superkiller✝️☦️ :

do you have adhd, me to i think it is a super power cause it helps me but it also makes me forget things and i cant sitt or stand still if i am not eating but i still think it helps me

rosiedelight :

yes

✨Stardust✨ :

I loathe one of my housemates for this reason. He tries to instruct, set goals, and adjust things for me like he's my father instead a ln acquaintance only 6 years older. I've had multiple conversations about it telling him to leave me be. Now I just don't talk to him.

Princess ✨ :

Baby I’m just trying to helpppp😭 now I messed up date night and imma cry lmao

cynthiarangel858 :

im like him. I do feel a lil bad at times when im this clear but then when im distance due to smell or whatever. they're upset anyway... as adults some people have bad habits that don't see it as inconsiderate to their partner. so I get it. some people brush their teeth but then snack n think their partner will b fine with that. not me! I get so nauseous!!!!! smell is a biiiiiiig thing first me

usako9876 :

my kids father did the same shit but he would never clean up himself. yeah, the relationship is over. I'm not a child and when i say stop, you stop. I'm AuDHD and need certain reminders, but I don't need to be told how to do ADLs.

India :

I wouldn't even go after he acted like that