@the_unmarried_widow: No electric so nothing to keep me occupied. Packing it is. Deciding what to keep what to send away for a blanket and then what to do with the rest is absolute torture. I miss his smell. Nothing smells of him anymore. 💔 Packing a suitcase used to be exciting. It meant a trip of a holiday. Having to unpack Davies because he did it wrong and pack it myself. Now I’m packing up memories in the case he wrote his name on like a child. The case he took on our holidays together. The case that carries memories inside it and with it. This will never be “just a suitcase”. This case now means more to me than my house does. #grief #grieving #widow #loss #memories
I’m 4 moths and can’t even think of getting packing his clothes away it’s 💔💔suppose I will know when time is right .my heart goes out to you xx
2026-07-30 19:15:59
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Angela wellings :
i know how your feeling its hard isnt it ❤️❤️❤️
2026-07-01 23:05:42
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karagriffin55 :
girl im crying with you ..its so cruel and hearbreaking ❤️
2026-07-30 23:17:40
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Margaret Wastell :
My heart goes out to you. I’m over 2 years on my grief journey and I can’t get rid of anything I’m not ready yet. 💔
2026-07-03 18:27:25
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Fredfarrah :
Aww sweetheart, I’m so sorry xx❤️
2026-07-02 08:11:44
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Dizzy D :
Hating this for you. Wish there was something useful I could do for you….heartbreaking and so f*%#ing unfair…. Sending love and a big hug xx
2026-07-01 21:20:45
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lainydoll :
sending lots of love.
remember, memories are in your head. You can't keep everything. Just keep the things that meant the most to you. xxx
2026-07-02 20:48:37
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nigenic :
I had memory bears made with my husbands favourite clothes, shirts and pj’s. Gave them to his siblings and our two kids and 1 for me x
2026-08-11 21:27:31
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. :
Sending you love & support. X
2026-07-03 01:06:54
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MrsTov :
I remember a friend who lost her husband after me saying she couldn't bear to open the wardrobe and not see any of his things 😔 I was the opposite, I couldn't bear to open it to see all his clothes when he was no longer here to wear them 😢 Everyone is different, there is no right or wrong
2026-07-21 16:11:38
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Nikky :
first time ive seen you. i lost my husband 18 months ago, we had 6 weeks notice before he passed. weve got 2 kids. 12 months later (this yr) i lost my mum. 2 funerals ive sorted in 12 months.
2026-08-11 07:07:25
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Mary Smith :
Oh sweetheart, my heart goes out to you, you will do in time
2026-07-22 16:04:46
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Rose Mitchell :
I feel so sad seeing you cry but you have to be strong. There's no prior notice or practice against grieving so it makes the situation so difficult to navigate. Grief can never be conquered or get healed of completely but we must learn to live with it. I used to think to I was too young of being a widow because I never spent much time with my hubby before his demise. we were just a young couple still trying to enjoy ourselves and make memories but here I am all alone. I'm scared of involving myself with anyone because I don't just know what will happen next. My greatest fear is being left alone and I don't just know if I should or shouldn't love again.
2026-08-13 22:13:45
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Margaret Martin :
I know exactly what you ar
e going through had the same when I lost my husband 16 yrs ago.I kept alot of his things & clothes too. Its so hard not having them there anymore But just do what is good for you take care & God Bless 🙏 🙏
2026-08-06 23:51:56
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maye.musk4321 :
I’m praying for you and holding you close in my heart.
May God give you strength, peace, and comfort in this difficult time.
Your husband is at rest now, and his memory will always be a blessing.
I’m here for you through all of this. You don’t have to carry it alone.
2026-07-25 03:08:43
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Helen kopicki :
Sending so much love. I feel your pain x
2026-07-02 18:27:08
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Yvonne Yule :
Aww bless you I’m going through exactly the same just now. I lost Colin 4 weeks ago and I can’t even open his wardrobes.
2026-08-01 16:44:16
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Terry :
I'm sorry darling. I'm in the same boat as you. It's three months and I have folded things away in his wardrobe but can't bear to do anything with them yet. Nothing smells of him anymore but I have put his aftershave in a reed diffuser and that helps me. Thinking of you xx
2026-07-30 13:42:25
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doreenfay27 :
Sending you lots of love
2026-07-02 07:17:33
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Angela K :
You’re strong. Just know that. 🥺
2026-07-24 21:10:40
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maid809 :
Sending lots of love to you.. you have so much going on with selling the house and sorting Davey’s stuff.. no one can deal with all of this at once 🥲 I really hope you are getting some help ❤️❤️
2026-07-01 20:11:03
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