@arthurcbrooks: The way you learned to receive love as a child often becomes the way you seek it as an adult. Pay attention to whether your accomplishments determine how lovable you feel. If they do, that pattern likely began long before your career did.

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gyrohuu
Valehu :
people raised in this way often become people pleaser, emotionally dipendent, they don't what they really love. And they think people should earn their love..they dove performance
2026-07-24 19:12:33
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springboarder
Stephanie Jacobs :
Isn’t that just life?? I’m confused
2026-07-01 22:20:46
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kelseypuckhaber
kelseypuckhaber :
Me at 30 year olds thinking wellll…. It kinda is earned?? lol
2026-07-03 14:52:23
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venture_clay
Venture_Clay :
human doing vs human being human reacting vs human acting I routinely will switch to third person in the middle of a conversation when speaking to ppl to force this perspective change. 🤣
2026-07-01 20:35:36
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sondrarussell6
sondradotcom :
Yep
2026-07-02 04:04:33
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cattledatagenie
Leoma | Cattle Genomics & Data :
Achiever here
2026-07-02 17:41:36
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sena1464
Sena :
love is grace
2026-07-01 20:04:56
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username234848328
user6111305745342 :
Yup
2026-07-02 15:14:59
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jerryjones2000
JerryJones2000 :
Wait kids get attention and praise for getting straight As?
2026-07-01 23:03:56
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sashalaurita
Alex :
One thing no one talks about or maybe they just don’t understand it: it is not the parents, it is our whole patriarchal, hierarchal, oligarchal civilization that bases success on competition and winning and despises the losers. In this light, you parents have your best at heart and yes, they teach you to strife and win. We need to change the basis of our mentality and our foundational structures, not blame parents for not being enough. It is not parents, it is our entire society.
2026-07-03 23:36:27
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leghari_02
leghari :
entertainment is largely responsible for this social issue
2026-07-10 18:41:51
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2026-07-03 20:19:30
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Chloe Rittenhaus :
😳😳😳
2026-07-12 01:20:12
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