@growwithkaela: It breaks my heart every time I hear this scenario, and I wish I didn’t understand it personally.. but I do. Loyalty is sacred, and shouldn’t be taken for granted. Grieving the loss of the one you love along with learning who your true “friends” are is something I wouldn’t wish on anyone. 🤍
Not one single person in our circle reached out to me to say, hey, sorry things didn't work out with you guys, I don't want to get in the middle, but I hope you're OK. Not. One. Single. Person.
2026-07-12 21:08:12
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megnesss :
Me but my family and the DA
2026-07-01 18:51:05
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Tequila Coco🥥🍍🔮🌙──⃝─⃝⃝⃝⃝── :
my ex best friend is now my ex best friend because I git a divorce
2026-07-02 12:55:33
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babushka :
friggin right!
2026-08-10 14:53:24
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missy putnam :
sounds like narcissism
2026-08-12 22:54:02
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It’s Sheresa :
It’s so hard. He’s awful and they think he’s the greatest thing ever.
2026-08-06 15:12:01
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Lin-Lin :
It also makes you question your
2026-08-11 04:38:04
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davidrexrode2 :
yes that's exactly what I've watched happen over the past couple years and I'm pretty sure I got made to look like the bad guy
2026-07-02 22:37:28
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Kevin :
This is sooooo relatable..
2026-07-02 01:02:55
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kc28124 :
I always got frustrated and completely angry when trying to get my DA to share feelings. I knew it wouldn't help to be that way but the sheer madness of it all made me look like a horrible person. NOBODY understands this when I try to explain.
2026-07-24 02:50:30
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BGonzalez :
Can you make this downloadable or shareable so I can download it and send it to my family who are not on TikTok because I don’t think they understand that aspect of being with a dismisses avoidant thank you so much because this is the most truth said and such an excellent way thank you
2026-08-06 13:49:21
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Sylvie Corona :
Omg exactly! They don’t see it
2026-07-16 00:41:28
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Kevin Walsh :
Word!!
2026-07-02 01:19:16
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TooHonestButTrue :
people don't get it
2026-07-06 22:38:18
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Mr.Meeogee :
well articulated 🤠
2026-07-09 02:55:51
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pj :
Agree
2026-07-02 05:32:12
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A :
So true!!!
2026-08-07 11:07:24
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Nottingham :
So true
2026-07-12 16:55:06
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DONE! :
they are not freinds they are validators in tye DA's script flipping performance are you kidding me ? its Oscar worthy but so obvious and yes that why they block and erase every trace of you but guess what they can never succeed in erasing and blocking you out of memory and one way or another the guilt shame and remorse will eat at them from the inside out. my Mirror is always squeaky clean they hope I run out of Windex however my Windex is observation so unless someone gouges my eyes out that ain't happenin
2026-07-16 08:42:10
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Mooo❤️ :
Same girl cried to me for 6mo that her BF cheated, but sat back and watched me be treated bad. Heck she even participated 😳
2026-08-17 13:24:37
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Brian :
They are not emotionally developed enough to see, or want to see the truth. Some of them were painfully damaged but it was too late. Everyone has to learn their own lessons.
2026-07-23 00:21:44
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the real deal :
wow spot on
2026-08-04 10:39:13
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Hannah21732 :
My DA claimed that I was stalking them after running into them twice and asking to talk after our break up. Then adding two friends to Instagram. I got called emotional abusive
2026-07-25 04:16:28
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FruitFliesLikeAnAirplane :
Why would she abuse me like that for 20 years and then be unable to apologize.
2026-08-10 07:06:11
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supernova2023jjj :
It’s the absolute truth you’re the only one that sees that side of them behind closed doors and no matter you cannot articulate what you’re really experienced and most people can’t understand or don’t care enough to understand and it’s a very isolating, lonely, dark nights of the soul to have to just on your own 100% rebuild and come off of that floor they put you on. It’s a it’s a tough road to hoe but man when you get to the other side, I don’t know about other people, but I see people very differently now and I’m grateful for the experience cause I know I’ll never be in that place again.
2026-07-02 01:08:47
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