omg whenever i share my own experiences i always wonder if that was the right thing to do or if i just looked self centred
2026-07-01 19:59:11
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caraba :
there's a different between saying "me too" and " I had it worse "or " but I... "
2026-07-02 00:42:36
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🌜☆ S U N N Y !! ☆ ☀ :
i agree! but always remember its not what you say, it's how you say it
2026-07-02 20:13:41
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gi :
without making it abt themselves afterwards tho
2026-07-02 12:11:51
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Magdala.13th :
That's because you want connection not attention💜
2026-07-01 20:17:25
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welk :
there’s just a nuance to this. when you share similar experiences always make sure to tie it back to the person sharing so that it doesn’t feel like you’re trying to invalidate them.
2026-07-01 23:09:26
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noahcura :
100% only valid when they do it to connect rather than refocus the conversation back to themselves lol
2026-07-02 07:20:08
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MajestatycznyKarol :
It depends
2026-07-01 22:46:14
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босс ножек (куринных) :
I wont tire of saying this, but when someone shares a similar experience, it often makes me feel better, because I realize that my problem is not unique, and if someone else has solved it, then so can I.
2026-07-01 20:05:16
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jazmine :
oh thank god bc that’s the only way I can relate to people
2026-07-02 08:00:20
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Idk :
Sameee I rather someone share a similar experience, especially if it's embarassing, makes me feel less alone and isolated and it's better than people saying "oh that sucks" :(
2026-07-02 03:03:08
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ALICE ✝️ :
I remember trying to comfort a friend on Wattpad many years ago, but they called me self-centered 😭 Still feel guilty to this day
2026-07-02 17:31:48
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cmron :
Yes. But also, no. Tone is everything.
2026-07-02 02:01:50
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more 🤎 :
quando eu falo minha experiência tenho medo da pessoa me achar ruim egoista ou egocêntrica 😭😭😭
2026-07-02 02:26:09
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MᗢFFET!! :
I've never met anyone who doesn't. You just have to do it without trying to shift attention
2026-07-02 20:35:36
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gaftgigr :
yesss, it makes me feel comforted and home, but they also can’t make it competitive or sum typa shit
2026-07-02 20:04:37
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shisolein :
it depends sometimes i want comfort by you listening to my problem, not by also having to deal with yours. we can talk abt you after i got everything off my chest
2026-07-02 20:13:01
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sheew80 :
exactly
2026-07-02 20:34:52
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. :
é muito bom quando você consegue perceber que a pessoa fala aquilo realmente de coração não apenas da boca pra fora
2026-07-01 22:22:41
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𝓘𝓬𝓪 :
depends on how they said it though
2026-07-02 10:53:18
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idc :
The tone and intent is felt and makes all the difference.
2026-07-02 14:09:19
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️7\ :
I always say “if it makes you feel better” so they know im not trying to make it about me
2026-07-02 13:19:46
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Olya ꕤ :
that's what I usually do and I hope it helps people
2026-07-02 10:30:28
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