For so long black men talks so much crap about dark skin black women when they bringing up colorism or favoritism toward light skin . It’s in the music , on tv , etc everywhere . Dark skin women were told it doesn’t exist and they are just jealous of lighter skin for decades . A lot of Black men have yet to do the work to unlearn , reverse the affects in the community. So it does feel like a derail in the conversation . Even though some black men have done the work internally and want to talk about their experiences. It doesn’t heal the the long history of gaslighting. A lot of black women are still hurting and trying to recover that’s why it’s probably not well received . Collectively we have so much work to do . Everyone is hurting
2026-07-23 12:41:09
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J :
There’s a parallel between how JB got treated on the Celtics and how KC is treated on Love island in relation to colorism, idk if you can articulate it better than me
2026-07-01 23:29:27
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peaceking2003 :
Download the app, we must vote for KC!
2026-07-02 01:33:57
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Sosa :
We have to have all the conversations simultaneously! We should be able to make room for each other’s experiences. Listening to one another doesn’t invalidate anyone else’s struggles. We can acknowledge that our experiences may be different while still supporting each other imo!!
2026-07-01 19:49:53
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$hani :
tyler perry produced this season. he don’t want yall to know tho
2026-07-02 09:46:15
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Cortney Tucker :
why is everybody taking about love island? I think this is a serious topic that yall shouldn’t putting focus on through a show.
2026-07-02 04:01:59
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😕. :
Dang I’m early asf, and you are speaking nothing but facts 🤦🏾♂️
2026-07-01 19:00:39
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nauru :
Love island got him pontificating
2026-07-01 19:02:52
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OO4Typeshii :
They don’t understand bro…. But this needs to be talked about more
2026-07-01 20:00:33
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Kaayla Alexa :
u rarely have an incorrect take tbh!
2026-07-01 19:19:37
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RyyDaBrat :
I really do appreciate how intelligent you are and the conversation topics that you bring up. This is a great conversation
2026-07-02 00:08:53
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JayT🚀 :
beautiful take man
2026-07-02 00:06:01
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Dakingpen :
I wished you were my professor in college. Interesting take, love these type of conversations, whether you agree or not!
2026-07-05 03:08:41
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Evan :
I had someone tell me “but we expected that from sincere”😐
2026-07-02 22:37:11
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mrsticky23 :
Been tryna say this but who am I supposed to talk about this with
2026-07-03 08:37:09
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Esther | Content Creator ✨🇳🇬 :
Phenomenal take
2026-07-01 23:56:53
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Ar :
2026-07-02 00:02:07
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fffgg :
People are too worried about making their struggle a competition
2026-07-02 05:18:02
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Fee :
Exactlyyyy
2026-07-02 14:33:59
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Amauriaa🥰. :
literally like why can’t we all come together to find the solution to the common problem we all have???
2026-07-02 13:11:29
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zstar :
Like we should be allowed to express the discomfort we feel on a day to day basis
2026-07-02 03:07:58
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Cam G :
Great convo i curious how these talks go
2026-07-01 19:55:17
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2026-07-03 03:00:00
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Imani Sevier539 :
Period
2026-07-02 18:18:21
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