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I distinctly remember the moment I became a perfectionist - or rather the event that led to it. I had passionately and excitedly written a story about some horses that lived in a field next to my house. I was so, so happy with what I’d written, and deeply desperate to impress my year 8 English teacher. But when I got my English book back, the page was flooded with red pen - and no, not because of all the ticks. Ticks were in fact few and far between, and there were corrections here there and everywhere! Corrections on grammar, on spelling and comments on the storyline. That red pen lingered in my memory every time I picked up a pen to write, and sadly that marked the end of my excitable creative writing journey. From then on, even if I did write something, I was convinced it would be bad before I’d even given it a chance, and the result was as good as my belief in it had been. But… it’s not all a sad story! When I finally realised that the first draft was SUPPOSED to be bad, I finally felt a freedom from needing to be perfect. And I don’t think it’s entirely our fault that the school system leads us to fall into that… In these creative writing classes in secondary school, there was never the chance to improve on your writing - you simply wrote something, had it marked, and moved on! And so in that sense, the first draft was the finished product and your only opportunity to impress. But real life isn’t like that. If you want to do well at something, there are two angles you can take: 1) spend hours drafting, redrafting and perfecting something before you publish it Or 2) put out so many drafts, that eventually you start improving, and the drafts end up being pretty good! Whilst both help you to overcome the fear of being bad, I’ve personally found that some of my best work was actually the drafts that I initially thought were rubbish! And actually when I did spend hours painstakingly improving something, the result often ended up being worse. So the moral of the story, is to recognise that progress is impossible without first starting. And that practice is what makes perfect (or as close to as is possible)! #perfectionist #positivepsychology #neuroscience #selfdevelopment
I distinctly remember the moment I became a perfectionist - or rather the event that led to it. I had passionately and excitedly written a story about some horses that lived in a field next to my house. I was so, so happy with what I’d written, and deeply desperate to impress my year 8 English teacher. But when I got my English book back, the page was flooded with red pen - and no, not because of all the ticks. Ticks were in fact few and far between, and there were corrections here there and everywhere! Corrections on grammar, on spelling and comments on the storyline. That red pen lingered in my memory every time I picked up a pen to write, and sadly that marked the end of my excitable creative writing journey. From then on, even if I did write something, I was convinced it would be bad before I’d even given it a chance, and the result was as good as my belief in it had been. But… it’s not all a sad story! When I finally realised that the first draft was SUPPOSED to be bad, I finally felt a freedom from needing to be perfect. And I don’t think it’s entirely our fault that the school system leads us to fall into that… In these creative writing classes in secondary school, there was never the chance to improve on your writing - you simply wrote something, had it marked, and moved on! And so in that sense, the first draft was the finished product and your only opportunity to impress. But real life isn’t like that. If you want to do well at something, there are two angles you can take: 1) spend hours drafting, redrafting and perfecting something before you publish it Or 2) put out so many drafts, that eventually you start improving, and the drafts end up being pretty good! Whilst both help you to overcome the fear of being bad, I’ve personally found that some of my best work was actually the drafts that I initially thought were rubbish! And actually when I did spend hours painstakingly improving something, the result often ended up being worse. So the moral of the story, is to recognise that progress is impossible without first starting. And that practice is what makes perfect (or as close to as is possible)! #perfectionist #positivepsychology #neuroscience #selfdevelopment

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