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Dr.Lang: The Island Coach
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nolookingsam10
NolookingbackSam10 :
When I hear "I feel".... I walk away and contemplate my future alone. Alone with peace and quiet.
2026-07-02 00:44:28
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that_catnap_guy
Catnap :
"challenge" only has a negative connotation to people who don't want to be better versions of themselves. Challenge me, I want to be better tomorrow than I am today.
2026-07-02 13:00:56
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raggedbirdsmusic
Mojo :
This drives me crazy, when the discussion becomes discussing the discussion, it’s so hard to bring it back to the point after that. It feels like defensiveness and deflection
2026-07-04 14:52:02
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m_stefanovv
M_StefanovV :
"I know you're right but I don't like the way you are talking to me"
2026-07-02 07:27:58
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kdy796
kdy796 :
My ex didn’t like my statements that started with “I’m not going to allow”. She said I was trying to control her 🤷🏾‍♂️. An example of a complete statement “I’m not going to allow you to keep talking over me” or “I’m not going to allow you to disrespect me like that”.
2026-07-02 04:32:29
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salty.scot
A Salty Scotsman ❌️ :
This is like my entire marriage. We never talked about what I brought up, we only talked about how I delivered the message. Tone, vocabulary, whatever it took to avoid addressing the actual issue.
2026-07-02 16:00:33
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sun7904
kratosdagod❌️ :
some listen to respond and some listen to understand
2026-07-02 11:32:20
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allstar_laflare678
DevvLaflare678 :
Did you end up apologizing in the end?
2026-07-02 02:55:51
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soqrbrad
ModerateMouse :
I thought it was going to be the word “accountable”
2026-07-02 12:55:34
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cazpardarksyde
CazpaRDarksydE :
its always about feeling. never about logic
2026-07-02 10:21:12
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jeffyachcik335
Jeff Yachcik335 :
I'm with Bill Burr. If she's right, she'll breakout a binder full of evidence showing it and lay it out like a courtroom drama. If she's wrong then the discussion goes off into the wilderness until you give up out of confusion.
2026-07-02 02:41:03
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mazehra44
Ma’Zeh-RA :
the magic word here is really accountability
2026-07-03 07:06:53
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uncle.zemo.gaming
Xemo :
so we aint tripping
2026-07-04 09:09:29
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m3talust
M3talust :
She didn’t hijack one word, she misunderstood one word. She hijacked an entire conversation.
2026-07-03 12:12:10
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likely.undead
Adam :
Teal Swan teaches that no one is responsible for how we feel except ourselves. No one can MAKE us feel a certain way. It is extremely benefitical to hear someone when they are telling you how they feel, but putting the blame on someone else for that feeling will never help. Thank you for sharing and understanding what we go through
2026-07-03 16:00:56
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mistgun420
Mistgun D. Wijaya 🍉 :
"He is totally right. i just don't like the vibes." then i asked, "Would you like a wrong thing with a very good vibes?" that's the last time we speak
2026-07-02 09:20:04
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jimmyqtron
Jamaican Life :
Exactly!!!!
2026-07-04 16:57:07
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xcvithagoat
xcvithagoat :
Thank you for this message 🔥🔥🔥
2026-07-04 16:18:27
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mr.andersonb
Mr Anderson :
I stopped explaining myself and I have more peace on mind and more happy
2026-07-02 05:37:30
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jamr0ck876
Gareth :
Exhausted for you. Can you imagine us 😳
2026-07-02 16:19:29
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anthonyradeck
Anthony Radeck :
"if we focus on this other thing then I don't have to worry about changing or working on myself". the single life is so much better
2026-07-02 05:38:40
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1time4now
1time4now :
You’re wise and very rare.
2026-07-02 00:31:11
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eyebeelion4
Tall👁️Tale🐝Thompson🦁 :
cooperation is a bad word too
2026-07-02 02:53:08
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backforthefirsttimeagain
backforthefirsttimeagain :
She wasn’t attacking that word in earnest. She was attacking (rejecting) the message in its entirety without having to say what she was doing. She knows the message is valid, but acknowledging that without pushback would make her accountable to the message. She doesn’t want to do that. So she latched onto one point of “contention” to nuke the whole message.
2026-07-02 17:40:40
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