@themoderndreamgirl: I don’t understand this line of reasoning #themoderndreamgirl #women #adviceforwomen #relationships

airlizzib :

Paying 50/50 for me is a trauma response. I never want to feel like I owe someone so I have a hard time letting others do things for me

X-Widow :

I believe that the person issuing invitation should pay 100%. Always.

Mia :

I woke up twice today

melbox :

Yup I agree and also 50/50 means you both have names on things but you also have separate accounts. Also GUYS! She’s talking about that early dating stage NOT committed relationships

:) :

this doesn’t make any sense

usernameupdated :

You always on here spitting facts

Noah :

Oxford study

aysenaz.cimsit :

Periodttt

Haleema :

Kim Berley :

the way I look at it is I'm already forced to pay more for my products while making less for equal work. it's already uneven. he can buy my dinner.

addieharrold :

I think scenarios can differ. If he's financially struggling bc he's in school, or he's a teacher, I would offer to pay for myself. But if he asked me out, pays, then expects something that's a huge red flag.

ilovesimps81 :

if I paid my half it means I never want to speak to him again

🤍 :

It’s like you’re thanking him for letting you be there with him by paying for yourself. Idk, will never sit right with me 🤷🏽‍♀️

ฅ ̳͒•ˑ̫• ̳͒ฅ♡ :

People dont get it when i say id rather do 100/0 and pay for everything than pay any portion of a bill when im with a guy

Spinfrog :

exactly, if you know he would do that, why do you even want him?

magda.hotelparadise12 :

I “dated” a man for a year 50/50, I saved money, broke up with him and bought my own apartment 😂

alisara :

No. It's showing you are on an equal footing.

Musee🐭 :

I only go 50-50 if I don’t like him because I feel bad wasting their money when I reject guys😭

Lizard 🦎 :

My husband is the only name on our mortgage but my name is on the deed 💗. I work in education and he works in tech, he makes more than me so it's the fair way to do it. Never once has he made a peep about it.

Phrou.phrou :

but i want to pay for what i eat and drink, I dont pay anyone to be nice the same way he is not paying me to do or be anything.

Denny :

You shouldn't be doing it because you would feel like you owe himself anything because you wouldn't as it would be 50/50 so neither of you would owe each other anything. You should be going 50/50 on a meal because it is fair not because you believe it is the only way he will be kind to you, what an extremely strange thing to say.

JustALittleChi :

This has nothing to do with 50/50. Don’t date people who aren’t nice to you. Period. Stop the video right there

John J. Lee :

It’s called equality