@the_mrs_crowder: Maybe this is the conversation more of us need to have. For so many years, we knew exactly who we were because someone needed us every minute of every day. This next chapter isn't about loving our kids less—it's about rediscovering ourselves. If this resonates with you, finish this sentence in the comments: "I'm rediscovering..." ❤️ #AdultKids #MidlifeWomen #WomenOver40 #Motherhood #LifeAfter40

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user2364136619450
user2364136619450 :
….ty. I don’t even know where to start doing that.
2026-07-18 15:24:32
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caitlyn065
Cait Lyn :
I'm feeling this. my son just graduated and I'm just sitting here by myself wondering what do I do now? it has been me and him his whole life and now I'm struggling getting back into this world.. and im scared
2026-07-16 23:22:10
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kendrakortiz313
kendrakortiz313 :
I didn’t prepare myself at all. The first year was so so hard. But thankfully it does get easier. At least is has for me. I became a grandma and I am needed again and this time I can slow down and enjoy the little moments.
2026-07-17 20:50:09
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ogshockone
ogshockone :
I never thought of them growing up. we do all these things and little do we know, we don't prepare ourselves for them to leave us.
2026-07-18 04:03:48
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holly.hebert
Holly H :
This spoke to my soul! My youngest is 18. I have a 20 year old and a 26 year old. I will be a grandma for the first time in October. I’m not handling their independence very well. All I know is being their mom.
2026-07-17 00:47:48
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lobdelljami
Jami Lobdell :
So very true! I tell my adult kids “I was so busy teaching them how to survive without me, that I forgot to prepare myself how to survive when they left home”
2026-07-02 02:55:01
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leela_theresa
Leela_theresa :
I feel this to the depth of my core. I always said I’d never make my kids my whole life but here we are…I don’t know who I am outside of their mom and learning that is hard work and kinda depressing bc I want to know me again.
2026-07-17 00:31:04
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beckypineau13
beckypineau13 :
Thank you for sharing this. Going through this and it’s so hard. 🥹
2026-07-02 15:30:22
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butterflies_39
user Trisha :
THIS!!!….TOUCHED MY WHOLE HEART GURLIE!!..FROM ONE MOMMA TO ANOTHER!!…😩💕
2026-07-03 14:40:11
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c.l.saint25
Passionate Ones :
I am currently struggling with this. All 4 of my children are now adults and no longer need me. They are all responsible adults, living on their own, and paying their own bills. I say the same thing. No one need me for anything and I don't know who I am outside of being a mom. I had my 1st child at 17 and now I'm almost 45. What do I do now?
2026-07-08 17:42:52
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lettyrose1970
lettyrose1970 :
Very true. I have no idea who I am
2026-07-03 01:46:38
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tereseav77
TereseaV :
I love that- “the woman we put on hold while we raised our kids.” So very true…
2026-07-03 00:52:26
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charleedoll
Charlee Doll :
I dont have a husband, it just me alone going to work and coming home and I am miserable
2026-07-03 21:52:59
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dee_dee_75
SaltyGrandma75 :
There is such a grieving period that no one but a mom understands. I felt it when my son graduated and 10 yrs later when he got engaged. Super happy for him but you mourn the relationship that is changing.
2026-07-03 14:30:03
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fairysherri
FairySherri :
I’m a mom. That’s all
2026-07-06 19:15:30
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ℕ𝕒𝕖🖤 :
This is exactly what I’m dealing with right now! I’m 37 & had my son at 20. As soon as he started driving last year I went into a depression. & now it’s getting worse bc he is about to be a senior and I know I’m just counting the days until he officially goes off. He’s my one & only! I hate when people tell me “you have so much time for yourself now!” But it’s honestly just lonely & quiet at home now. It’s truly painful & slightly pathetic.
2026-07-05 18:12:32
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enoughisenoughmomma
KDub :
I feel this in my soul … ur not alone
2026-07-04 14:58:26
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lynnmbryan
Lynn ✨️ let's try it :
I feel ya. It gets better 🌺
2026-07-02 18:19:42
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hamletdez
D.Hamlet :
This is very true. I always say my kids give my life purpose.
2026-07-05 17:56:36
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fnklocke
fnklocke :
My two boys are 26 and 24, youngest is now married and they are thriving. However, I’m still so lost.
2026-07-02 20:09:50
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wallmom1
Andrea Cooper880 :
I went through this a few years ago. My girls are successful adults and they don’t need me. But luckily for me they want me. It took me awhile to remember who I was before I was a wife and mom. I was fun! And I work at bringing that girl back. Only wiser and with more money! lol. This chapter is good when we except it.
2026-07-02 17:10:15
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jenniferphillips2146
Jenn :
my youngest just graduated and I'm so lost.
2026-07-03 02:02:10
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zol80357792160
TMM085 :
I feel this… I have 1 child and he just graduated high school and turned 18 and now I don’t know who I am. It’s the weirdest and saddest feeling
2026-07-03 01:15:57
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marieclaudeppaquette
Marie-Claude P Paquette 🇨🇦 :
So very true! 💖
2026-07-16 16:41:03
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susannedahl1
Susanne Dahl :
Amen!!!!!!!
2026-07-16 15:18:07
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