@arienmalik: A lot of these lessons came from trying to make things work that were already showing me they weren’t meant to. Trying to understand someone so deeply that I forgot to ask whether they were actually good for me. Giving people grace while slowly running out of it for myself. Waiting for potential to become a pattern. Explaining what I needed over and over, hoping the right words would finally make someone care. I don’t regret having a big heart. But I had to learn that love is not supposed to require me to carry someone, fix someone, convince someone, or lose myself trying to make the connection feel safe. Some people are not bad people. They’re just not capable of showing up in the way a healthy relationship requires. And accepting that can save you a lot of time, pain, and versions of yourself you should never have had to become. #datingadvice #relationshipadvice #emotionalintelligence #HealingJourney #selfrespect

nelimazibuko266 :

I'm learning about chemistry because all the people I had crazy chemistry with it didn't last

bonbir :

Thank you for sharing this wonderful information regarding dating

Amber Alert 🚨 :

This is sooo true

thatgirl.lianne :

I needed this, thank you

Unique1111777 :

I'm done with dating and accept I'm most likely going to be alone for the rest of my life but I still watched and very good information 🙂✌🏾n ❤️

Luce :

Can I tattoo this video on my forehead?? Please?!

Witty Youngman :

Simple and to the point. Do they get my reposts? lol it’s fine

Red gina :

wow this is so profound.

janella :

Heavy on number 2. My god

🤎 𝒪𝓁𝒶𝒻 𐙚 ❄️ :

Noo I need to be healed to be loved or else I’ll self sabotage again

Kontessa Benneè :

This is good!!

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Brooklyn Royalty :

Well said

brie love❌ :

I needed to hear this. thank you

Butterfly :

J.D.B./Autism Titi :

Whoooo! Read for filth, although I’m single. I’ve learned these hard lessons.

Char 💕👸🏾 :

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Transformin_on_a_daily :

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Angel :

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milesandmomentswithtiff :

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