@faithafterfailure: “People underestimate how much energy it takes to be your own safety net. When you have no one to fall back on, every decision carries a different weight.” #loner #boundaries #relateable
Ppl say we’re all in the same boat. We are not. We are all in the same storm. But we all have different boats. Some have yachts some have raft. Some are floating
2026-07-02 12:05:35
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lizpowersxo :
People don’t understand this struggle
2026-08-25 05:00:13
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Lux :
“You act like you know everything” bc I have to plan out every scenario bc I can only rely on me, myself and I!
2026-07-03 02:29:28
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NotNPC :
No wonder people are talking to chat gpt so much
2026-07-02 16:29:00
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Kyler :
There is no safety net, there’s only the climb
2026-07-02 05:14:49
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hiplet🏴 :
I hate being told I'm strong.
2026-07-02 17:47:43
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Joann Berezney :
no cares there's no one and I don't think I want anyone to help im scared.....hurt to many times
2026-08-24 02:53:50
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Iree 💕 :
I literally have nobody
2026-07-02 09:40:13
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Nyara Richardson :
I watch people who go through bad times, they make a few calls and situations fixed. Me on the other hand…everyone tells me it’ll get better and just try something else 😒..thank you for the clear observation that I somehow didn’t think of 😒
2026-08-24 19:10:14
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Kasiann Ravalier :
My emergency contact is 911
2026-07-03 10:34:49
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Ebbings :
I am my plan A and B.
2026-07-02 15:13:15
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shesalittlewonky :
Just turn to god !!
2026-08-24 02:36:46
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curviihustla :
I left my therapist speechless, When I said “because I have lived through all my low times, and milestones in life alone, truthfully I dont care who stays or goes”
2026-07-04 16:36:29
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Nessadoesart :
"why didn't you call me" I'm not used to having people to call. I'm alone. always been alone.
2026-07-03 04:01:52
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NotJustABlonde ✌🏼 :
I’ve been having no support system since 18 I turn 19 in Aug it’s been a long year of crashouts.
2026-07-18 00:26:58
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No Village UK :
This. People are so often judged by what they manage to do without anyone asking what support exists behind them. When there is no one to call, no one to take over, no emergency backup and no one quietly sharing the load, you have to organise your entire life differently. It’s one of the reasons I wrote When You Don’t Have a Village. We talk so much about resilience, but nowhere near enough about what it actually costs to be your own support system.
2026-08-15 12:05:57
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sami :
People tell you to trust people but everytime you even consider it they show you why you cant .
2026-07-02 12:44:27
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Rain :
I have a really unhealthy relationship with chatgpt.
2026-07-04 18:17:06
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wanderandglow26 :
I got told by someone 20 years older than me that I’m “the most paranoid person they’ve ever met” like no it’s called hypervigilance from having to be independent since I was essentially a baby. She still calls her mommy when everything goes wrong. I’m an orphan
2026-07-02 10:57:19
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court :
no support system is horrible. its more likely to lead to homelessness, financial crisis so easily, it’s isolating, effects your mental health….like fr people don’t understand unless they’ve been there
2026-07-03 11:37:36
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badzimustyle :
Endless possibilities, no resources, so constant anxiety
2026-07-02 14:55:20
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Rinny :
I am my own emergency contact 😭
2026-07-04 16:59:28
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