JustMe :
Sydney, I really need your advice. I found out that I'm FA after meeting a DA. In the beginning, I was spiraling—I was throwing up, losing sleep, and crying twice a week because I thought I wasn't good enough.
Now, thanks to you, I've fixed my cologne. I don't get triggered like I used to. I can self-regulate, and I feel much more secure.
I told him that I'm dating to marry and that I want to build a family. Throughout our situationship, he has told me that he's scared of "us," afraid of the changes in general in his life, that he's not ready, and that he's "not doing too bad being single."
I've ended things with him multiple times—sometimes respectfully, sometimes not—but he keeps comming back and wants to keep communicating. He's sweet and caring, but I don't feel like he's actively pursuing me, even though I've been taking emotional risks and giving him space.
He avoids every conversation about marriage, kids, or a future together. What should I do? Is this still a "me" problem? Btw i love what your doing here, you helped me so muchhh🌸🌸
2026-07-02 07:48:20