@heyitslachelle: People who respect you don’t look for reasons to disqualify you. They don’t hold you to impossible standards while giving everyone else grace. They don’t make you earn basic kindness. They don’t keep moving the goalposts every time you get close. When someone truly values you, respect isn’t conditional. If you’re constantly questioning where you stand, pay attention to their actions, not their promises. 🤍 If you’re learning to stop settling for less and finally choose your peace, I’ve linked my favorite resources in my bio. #selfawareness #relationshippatterns #growth #respect #boundaries
My boss 🥲 his fav crashed a project, he called me to fix it and got angry at me when I only had 10% the time he had and I actually DID fix it -
2026-08-29 20:38:25
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Kris Brown. :
& let’s not forget to mention they expect more from your than they expect from themselves as well!
2026-07-02 15:34:00
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Griffin :
“That’s just who they are” for them but “you should’ve known better” for you.
2026-07-02 18:37:37
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Abri :
I’m so tired of this dynamic dude
2026-08-28 00:53:19
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ashtuhn :
oh you’ve met my family, small world
2026-07-02 16:20:56
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Bride of the Lamb 144K :
This is also a sign of envy.
2026-07-04 18:33:40
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youve met my entire family
2026-08-28 02:22:52
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Aura :
I never got grace but saw them give everyone else
2026-07-02 19:56:25
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🍾✨Suave✨🔥 :
I agree. I’d go even further and say it’s not just a lack of respect but a deep resentment
2026-07-03 22:58:36
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ahhh, i see you met my ex best friend.
2026-07-02 18:10:36
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Mari :
And then when you KNOW the rules are different for you and you talk about it with someone, they’ll swear up and down that it’s not true even though you absolutely know how it works with you no matter what you do to try and fix it.
2026-07-03 14:10:50
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Scholarship Guru :
I noticed this with accountability. Like someone’s ride or die bestie will say something diabolical- but they get grace and are not expected to apologize. But if I do something very minor in comparison, all of a sudden an apology is needed as an ultimatum. Double standards. I don’t like that.
2026-07-03 21:47:05
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daniinkc :
Hi so this trigged me
2026-07-04 01:37:01
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billaaa6666 :
oh you know my boss? that’s crazy
2026-07-04 14:08:45
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mbklove06 :
💯💯 It’s jealousy
2026-07-05 01:44:24
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Avanell😇 :
I needed to hear this and unlearn unhealthy habits
2026-07-02 12:48:40
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Neurospicydinosaur :
I’m neurodivergent so this is my whole life with everyone
2026-07-04 14:38:24
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space21829 :
Nope. Took me years to understand- it’s because they view you as an extension of themselves. That’s enmeshment.
2026-07-05 04:02:15
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Jada20023 :
Nobody gives me grace cuz nobody truly gaf about me
2026-07-03 17:45:18
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Dr. Diva :
it's always "let me speak let people speak" but when I speak it's always "are you done yet are you done talking"
2026-07-07 18:23:10
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Ledi tm :
But why does this happen EVERYWHERE I go? 😭
2026-07-05 07:42:23
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Keke :
Bullying
2026-07-04 06:22:53
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just.keep.swimming 💙🤍🧡 :
I remind them that their reality isn’t real. I embody everything they couldn’t be. The jealousy is so obviously lol. Ofc people like that don’t like me.
2026-07-17 14:49:07
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Gbaby 🌟 :
The line is always moving ....
2026-07-02 17:50:54
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