@meltcouplesmassage: The question woman ask most. "How do I make it so it's only a massage, nothing more?" All relationships are based on negotiations. My best advice is to negotiate terms. Today's massage is for you, tomorrows massage is for him. If you find a massage that suits both of you at the same time, perfect. You can avoid it by physically creating distance but eventually you'll either have the conversation / negotiation. Or you'll never massage again.