@wolfwomxn: Somebody left a comment on a video recently that demanded I should stop dancing all the time, that I “feel myself” too much. I sat with that. At first I was so taken aback because: well I can’t imagine ever saying something like that to someone. But my immediate thought from my childhood sense of self was shame; maybe I come off as too “confident or cocky” maybe I should feel embarrassed. I should shrink myself more. I’m too much maybe? Who do I think I am upsetting this complete stranger!!?!?! 😂 Immediately I laughed. A big loving belly laugh that rippled through this human meat suit. I thought; how funny to tell anyone they should stop dancing!! Like: how dare you do your best to survive in a world that is so heavy. To believe that anyone should be shamed for feeling joy. That hurts my heart. Anyone who grew up being bullied, or abused knows this. It’s a challenge to be grounded in your wholeness when our entire patriarchal colonial capitalist society thrives on you hating yourself. Let alone a woman for loving herself with joyful and reckless feral abandon! Then I felt the grief to know that we all go through cycles of not “feeling ourselves” especially now; when we could think of nothing less fun than dancing because we feel so low. Because our bodies aren’t “perfect” to societal standards. Ridiculous!!! We should be allowing the lonely darkness to overtake us in silence!! Nope. I’m good 😂 I will never stop dancing. Ever. And you shouldn’t either!!!!! Please? I beg you: feel yourself “too much”, dance, move your energy. Because if you don’t, things will never get better. They just won’t 🤍 Also I just found out that @hauteandfreddy are coming to my hometown this summer and I could not be more excited 😭✨🤍🤌🏽🦋🕯️

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Thursday 02 July 2026 13:57:07 GMT