peachykiss :
I'm really tired and confused, and I honestly need your advice. 😭🙏🏿
I've noticed something about myself that scares me. Whenever someone genuinely loves me and treats me well, I somehow lose my feelings for them. But when someone doesn't give me attention or love me the way I love them, I end up falling deeply for them.
I dated someone for over three years. He was my first love, knew everything about me, and even our families attended the same church. I loved him so much and couldn't imagine life without him, but over time I suddenly lost my feelings. Now he's hurting because of it, and I feel terrible.
At the same time, every relationship I get into seems to end the same way. I give my whole heart to people who don't love me back or who eventually break my heart.
What worries me most is marriage. I don't believe I can marry someone I don't truly love, because love and understanding are what keep a marriage strong. If I don't genuinely love someone, I feel like I won't be able to care for them the way a husband deserves to be cared for.
I'm honestly confused, and sometimes I cry because I don't understand why this keeps happening. Why do I always fall for people who don't seem to value me, but lose feelings for people who truly love me?
Please, if you have any advice or have experienced something similar, I'd really appreciate hearing your thoughts. Your advice would mean a lot to me. ❤️🙏🏿
2026-07-02 21:16:20