@heartofdating: We have done men a massive disservice. We told them to have it all figured out before they're worth dating. The perfect job. The perfect apartment. The fully arrived, no-rough-edges version of a man. But that's not actually what makes a great husband. Here's what 9 years of coaching has taught me — men are like flatbed trucks. The heavier the weight, the straighter they drive. That weight is responsibility. The men I respect most? The men I'd want my daughter to marry one day? They're not the ones who have everything. They're the ones carrying something. Leading something. Growing toward something. So if you're looking for a green flag — stop waiting for the guy who has arrived. Look for the guy with responsibility on his shoulders. Look for the guy who is growth-minded. Look for the guy who is already moving in a great direction. That man is worth your attention. Comment POD and I'll send you the full episode link straight to your DMs. 👇🎙️